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It doesn't make me sick. I'm just saying I'm sick of tired of how addicted I've become to it. At times I wonder wtf I'm doing sitting at home looking at lesbians, what do they really concern me, I need to go out and find a woman of my own instead of watching two girls together.
Well if the bi male really is the cheating kind than I understand. It's hard to know, but studies have shown both bisexual men and women are more promiscuous on average.
It doesn't look like you'd marry any type of male, bi or straight lol.
I'm not bi or gay myself, and I'd actually rather not marry a bi woman either.
OH, ok now I understand, you're just 'too into' lesbian porn . Well take comfort because I think there's tons of men that are into. I would venture that they are the ones primarily watching it. I agree though that both bisex males and women have "reputations" of being promiscuous but again that's probably not true all the way around (obviously in my case it's not).
I would actually marry some type of male -- but that would mean they would actually have to give me a chance and they never 'technically' have so I speak hypothetically about marriage as in, if I could be married....
Why do you say you'd rather not marry a bi woman -- is it the same reasons as what I said?
Back to the topic. I think American society has always tolerated female bisexuality BUT NOT female lesbianism and male homosexuality/bisexuality.
A lot of movie actresses from black-and-white film days were bisexual, and leading men, influential men, and corporate men continued to marry them. I'm surprised they could trust her further than they could throw her.
I think that this is even valid today. Look at Angeline Jolie. She's still considered "cool." I don't think she is. But Melissa Etheridge and Meredith Birney (that was a surprise) are no longer "cool" to mainstream American society.
Also, when in social or work settings, and reference is made to someone, it goes like this:
"(Name of female bisexual), she's a programmer here."
OR
"(Name of lesbian, gay or bisexual male), he/she is a programmer here, and he/she is lesbian/gay/bisexual"
It looks like the bisexual woman gets her "cake and eats it too!" No pun intended. That just occurred to me.
OH, ok now I understand, you're just 'too into' lesbian porn . Well take comfort because I think there's tons of men that are into. I would venture that they are the ones primarily watching it. I agree though that both bisex males and women have "reputations" of being promiscuous but again that's probably not true all the way around (obviously in my case it's not).
I would actually marry some type of male -- but that would mean they would actually have to give me a chance and they never 'technically' have so I speak hypothetically about marriage as in, if I could be married....
Why do you say you'd rather not marry a bi woman -- is it the same reasons as what I said?
If a man marries a bi woman, likelihood is she's still more attracted to other women and will cheat on him with other women.
If a man marries a bi woman, likelihood is she's still more attracted to other women and will cheat on him with other women.
That's why Brad Pitt is an idiot. Who knows where Angelina is getting her other needs met? But, hey, when you churn out that much money, maybe you can look the other way.
Mod cut: orphaned. You still have not, and will not, address your assumptions. Why is that? Maybe your religion can lend a clue here?
It's called personal observation and corroboration with others, who say "Yeah, I thought the same thing." I don't conduct sociological or psychological research. I go with the 90/10 rule on profiling (more acceptable than stereotyping). It works fairly well...for me...and others. Incidentally, that's why they have professional "profilers" in various places of work (crime labs, think tanks, cyberspace companies, market research companies).
Is it maybe actually BECAUSE this society seems so obsessed with homosexuality? Like gay marriage, for instance, shouldn't that mainly apply to gay couples? Why do a lot of straights seem apparently interested in homosexuality? Like men having the lesbian fetish, for instance.
Yet men seem as paranoid as ever about being labelled 'gay.' Even if you are mistaken as gay, if it's tolerated, why would it be so terrible? A couple of people have thought I might've been gay (only a couple though). Honestly I didn't care.
Like men aren't allowed to have much physical contact with one another - even in more homophobic nations than Pakistan men hold hands and stuff, what gives? Not that I'm pining to hold my friend's hand or anything. Or what about short shorts or something, if people are so tolerant, why are so many people making fun of these guys for looking or acting 'gay'? It's so ridiculous. Since when did men become uncomfortable kissing each other on the cheek? Maybe the fact it's seen as sexual is because if a man kissed another man it would lead to more. I find it profoundly odd that it's only acceptable for women.
It's like everyone is being suspected of being gay these days. If a women watches lesbian porn it's normal, but if a man does even once he's gay? Why the annoying double standard? Sexuality isn't as fixed in stone anyway, people are still obsessed with labels and whatnot.
I think you can see from this thread that there are plenty of people who are still prejudiced against homosexuals. There are certain social circles and certain regions where people's sexuality is not a big deal - but there are still many ignorant and prejudiced people out there.
At least this is something you won't blame women for!
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