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Old 02-16-2014, 01:45 AM
 
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Politically proactive homosexuals are a wreckless class of human beings that deserve to be buried under prisons. They have exhibited no concerns over the pending consequences of the Windsor decision, for example, and how it affects everybody.

No, the Windsor decision, where the SC threw their own litmus test that determines whether a group are a protected class or not, and threw it out the window....all to groove home the result that was best for who?

This isn't even mob rule, it's an example of EXTREME minority rule. Gays have become nothing but very valuable pawns for the Totalitarian end game.

 
Old 02-16-2014, 02:29 AM
 
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Gays are lying about being born homosexual. I can definitely tell you it's a lie. I was so called gay in high school but only because I let people influence me. Here's the thing, I was a loner and didn't have many friends. When I was very young a relative sexually abused me and I didn't tell anyone. Due to the abuse I hated myself, so I fell in with the wrong crowd. Most of the people in that crowd drank, did drugs and pretty much watched gay porn. Their families didn't want them around because they were losers and I felt like I was a loser too.

But then I realized that I didn't need those people and I no longer wanted to live that lifestyle. I am now in college, dating a woman and have never thought about any man. I know that I'm not the only one who experienced these type of issues but I'm probably one of the few who will speak openly and honestly about it.

Gays know that they are living badly but many just want to do it because they hate themselves due to past abuses. The best thing that you can do for a person who is hell bent on leading a gay lifestyle is just let them be and hope that they will come around. If he doesn't come around, he will eventually self destruct. I can tell you that being homosexual is not healthy. The majority of gay guys frequent gay bars looking for sex. They don't care who they sleep with, they just want to have sex. I kissed a few guys but I was never interested in doing more, because I knew about AIDS and didn't want that disease. I was very fortunate that I didn't go down that path.
Doesn't sound like you are gay at all. Just a confused heterosexual. Sexual abuse as a child can lead to confusion about sex and sexuality, poor self-esteem, trust issues, self-harming/destructive behavior etc. I would strongly suggest you get some therapy by someone who specializes in this area.

But we know that sexual abuse has nothing to do with 'causing' sexual orientation (there have been quite a few studies on child sexual abuse), so I don't know why you think you can speak for gay and lesbian people. Like straight people, the majority of gays and lesbians were not sexually abused as children, although, again like straight people, some were.

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Old 02-16-2014, 02:34 AM
 
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I am going to create a youtube video because I feel like more people need to know the truth about the lies told. It's a dangerous and sad lifestyle. I don't think many people know the extent of the mental illness that is involved.
Lol. You do that! Let us know the name of the video so we can all join in and comment on it.
 
Old 02-16-2014, 02:38 AM
 
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I'm not a troll. I'm just a guy who feels the need to relay my experience. I was sexually abused by a relative. For a long time I carried around lots of guilt because I felt like I should have reported him and stopped him from abusing me but I trusted him and didn't want others to know because I felt like I would be in as much trouble as him.

I drank and did drugs to cover up how low I felt and I hung around losers. I convinced myself that I was like them and born that way. I felt like if I wasn't gay, he would have never abused me.

I know you know what you are doing is wrong. You just don't want to admit it. It's easier to claim you were born that way.
Get some help.

http://www.apa.org/pubs/info/brochures/sex-abuse.aspx+

1300 Professional Support Line

Male Survivors - Rape and Sexual Abuse Survivors Message Board and Chat Room

Male Sexual Assault | RAINN | Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network

http://www.childmolestationpreventio...pdfs/study.pdf

Trying to take your pain and anger out on gay and lesbian people is abusive.

The majority of men who sexually abuse boys are heterosexual males- as are their victims.
 
Old 02-16-2014, 02:45 AM
 
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Men who are sexually attracted to boys.......are

Spoiler
heterosexual?



LMFAO
 
Old 02-16-2014, 02:57 AM
 
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Men who are sexually attracted to boys.......are

Spoiler
heterosexual?



LMFAO
No, the majority of men who sexually abuse boys are heterosexual. Their adult sexual attraction is usually towards adult women. They abuse children opportunistically because children are easy to control and they can get away with it more easily than with an adult, not because they are sexually attracted to children. Often these men sexually abuse girls and/or boys in their own family because they have easy access and can "guilt-trip" the children into not telling anyone. Most men who sexually abuse children are not actually true pedophiles- only around 7% according to one of the largest studies on child sexual abuse (Abel and Harlow, 2001). Most child sexual abusers have an adult heterosexual orientation, a small percentage have an adult homosexual orientation.

You could educate yourself or you can remain ignorant - that's your choice. Although why would anyone want to remain ignorant or believe in myths when it comes to the safety of children?

Try some of those links I provided.

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Old 02-16-2014, 03:36 AM
 
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To me the the anti-gay marriage folks are very similar to the anti-gun folks, in the sense that they're fighting a losing battle against the constitution. Most anti-gay marriage laws are not consistent with due process and equal protection. I'm not pro-gay, I'm pro-constitution.
 
Old 02-16-2014, 04:20 AM
 
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Must not be teaching from the bible then or are they just skipping the part that their god condemns homosexuals and homosexuality?
I am teaching from the Bible - today I continue on with exploring the Sermon on the Mount.

If you actually studied the Bible in its original languages you would see that there is no condemnation of homosexuality. There is condemnation of exploitation, judging etc., but not homosexuals.

Besides how would you know what is in the Bible, aren't you an atheist?
 
Old 02-16-2014, 04:25 AM
 
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Gays are lying about being born homosexual. I can definitely tell you it's a lie.
Hrm, I am gay and never chose to be so. I wasn't abused as a child, haven't had any major traumatic experiences unless you count my first dog dying just as I finished high school.

Oh yeah, I don't have a lifestyle, I have a life. Happily married, don't touch drugs (never have), have a beer periodically but even then couldn't tell you the last time I was in a club, let alone a gay club. Hold a full-time job, usually in bed by 11 - pay bills, save for the future etc. Such an exciting life
 
Old 02-16-2014, 04:34 AM
 
Location: Bella Vista, Ark
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I knew this would go right over your head.
and anyone who refers to gay as a lifestyle knows very little about homosexuality.
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