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Old 09-30-2018, 05:28 AM
 
Location: A State of Mind
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Originally Posted by Gungnir View Post
The question doesn't relate to motives, just actions. Your feelings on the subject aren't really relevant nor ubiquitous, there are a not insignificant number of women just as predatory as men. It's highly patriarchal to claim all women are all about interaction and foreplay, you've clearly never swum in the same sexual circles I have.
And good for that.
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Old 09-30-2018, 07:03 AM
 
Location: Itinerant
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The difference is, a guy is still getting something physically out of "using" a passed-out female.

I suppose a woman could use some object upon a male, but what would not be getting anything physical from it. (This is why you otherwise hear of it happening thru man-on-man).
Physically is BS. Rape is not about sex but power, and violation of an unwilling subject.

Of course if you knew anything about the subject you're poorly trying to discuss you'd know this.
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Old 09-30-2018, 07:51 AM
 
Location: Just over the horizon
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If you're really drunk, you can't consent. What gender you are is irrelevant.


So if two drunk people have sex, they both raped each other?

Man, I never realized how many times my wife raped me while we were dating.......

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Old 09-30-2018, 10:16 AM
 
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We seriously need to get a grip on our definition of rape. Apparently pawing at someone against her will labels you a rapist in the minds of many these days.
I have a sneaky feeling the ultimate goal here is to undermine all sex crimes...kind of like the boy who cried wolf over and over again...eventually NO ONE believed him when the wolf was really there...that is basically what these groups are accomplishing today, but they are disguising the efforts as something else.
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Old 09-30-2018, 12:49 PM
 
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The U.S. government says a man can only be "raped" if his anus is penetrated or oral sex is performed on him without his consent.

https://www.justice.gov/archives/opa...efinition-rape
For a woman, she can be raped vaginally, orally, or anally with any type of foreign object. Since a man's genitals are "closed" so to speak, from a technical standpoint, would a person attacking a man by piercing his penis with a pin be considered rape?
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Old 09-30-2018, 01:16 PM
 
Location: South Carolina
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We need to get it out of our heads that an adult male wants to be intimate with everyone woman he sees even if the woman is very good looking. Not all guys want to be with a bunch of different woman.
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Old 09-30-2018, 01:19 PM
 
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Rape is about control not sex. I don't know any women like this.
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Old 09-30-2018, 01:20 PM
 
Location: A Nation Possessed
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If a sober woman has sex with a drunk man, should it be considered rape?
Yes. What is good for the goose is good for the gander. And the accusing man shouldn't have to remember much of anything when he makes the accusation 40 years later.
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Old 09-30-2018, 01:23 PM
 
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Rape is about control not sex. I don't know any women like this.
I know a lot of women almost all of them who are controlling. But I agree, for women sex is mostly about being passive and giving up control.
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Old 09-30-2018, 02:00 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Id be interested in doing some online searching, as to how many of these types of cases there have been thru out the country (drunk man raped by sober woman).
I'm sure it happens all the time but the men don't go to the police. They would be laughed at if they did.

I knew a man whose wife would hit him and beat up on him, and the police laughed at him and wouldn't do anything when he reported it.
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