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So what are you trying to say? That a woman shouldn't use birth control if a man won't? Do you not see how counterproductive that type of petty juvenile behavior is?
Nope. It is hard to have a conversation with you when you're so consistently jumpy and hostile.
So what are you trying to say? That a woman shouldn't use birth control if a man won't? Do you not see how counterproductive that type of petty juvenile behavior is?
Bingo…perfect example of cutting one’s nose to spite their face.
Because you came off pretty ignorant about it. "Snip your junk! Go adopt or freeze sperm if you want a baby later on! Otherwise stop crying!" Yeah, great logic. To sit there and still act like snipping should be the way to go is a bit much.
Look, if guys wanna do that, then by all means, go for it. That's a choice they'll have to make. As for your response to my other part of the comment, it can be successful if both parties are actually serious about it. If not, then they deal with the consequences. You know the saying "you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make them drink?" Well, same logic applies here. If someone wants to think with what's in their pants instead of what's in their head, that's their own fault.
Interesting how me and many of my other friends, including those who are married and don't want kids yet, can do this, and be successful. Maybe people like you need to stop making excuses, and starting being held accountable for your life choices.
Really? You asked the question: What happens if they decide down the road they want kids? Then what?
My response was just logical. If one has already been sterilized, adoption is about the only choice left if you change your mind. I guess for men one could try a reversal. If one had forethought they would freeze their gamates. I dont see what is ignorant about that. You didnt answer my question, what do you think happens if one is sterilized and then changes their mind later?
I'm not sure why you act like I think its the way to go. Your question was after the fact?
Also not sure what excuses you think I'm making or why you are so upset about what others choose for their BC or how they manage their own reproduction. Or why you think I'm not accountable for my life choices. I chose to have 2 kids, then I chose to have a tubal ligation because I chose not to have any more kids. It was a wonderful decision.
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then they deal with the consequences.
LOL. Thats exactly what I said about getting a vasectomy. I guess its ok when you say it but its ignorant when I say it, huh? Typical of those who think other peoples reproduction is their business.
I hear the opposite. I hear people popping champagne over men choosing to sterilize themselves, acting as if these men cured cancer or something. I have no children, by the way.
Thats what I'm hearing. I think there are two posters who seem vehemently opposed to young men taking control of their own reproduction.
Nope. It is hard to have a conversation with you when you're so consistently jumpy and hostile.
Nope, that is absolutely not what I said.
Jumpy and hostile? You just can't refute what I've said. lol
It makes NO sense whatsoever for women who don't want to get pregnant to not use birth control because of the idiotic "but what about men, why don't they have to use birth control" excuse. That's possibly the most self-defeating, self-hating thing I've ever heard women say. And there are quite a few saying exactly that in these threads.
I didn't know they made actual condoms with sizes like extra small, small, medium, etc.
Were these joke condoms?
I do not think so. They were int he pharmacy and toiletries area. I had not seen this before either, although I have seen extra large.
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