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Old 09-02-2018, 11:03 AM
 
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Do you think he knew what he was doing, or was just an unfortunate missundestanding? What about the comment about she sounding like a Mexican dish? Any psychological lessons with coud learn from this incident?

 
Old 09-02-2018, 11:19 AM
 
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Do you think he knew what he was doing, or was just an unfortunate missundestanding? What about the comment about she sounding like a Mexican dish? Any psychological lessons with coud learn from this incident?
Well, he did a couple of dumb things. First of all, she is very famous and gifted, has a gorgeous voice, and he thought her name was an item from the Taco Bell menu? And secondly, she's young and beautiful, and he should have kept his hands off her.

She took it graciously, but he was out of line. Honoring Aretha Franklin was more important than causing a fuss, but he was inappropriate. It made me uncomfortable; no telling how it made her feel.

I don't do well with teasing. You can say it was a harmless joke, but teasing is always, and always, an attempt to put someone down, put them in their place, or elevate yourself above the person, however disguised. I don't like it. And it's not innocent.
 
Old 09-02-2018, 11:20 AM
 
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Taking advantage.....as usual, scum.

You could tell by her face how SHE took it.
 
Old 09-02-2018, 11:27 AM
 
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Taking advantage.....as usual, scum.

You could tell by her face how SHE took it.
Yeah, she did look a little startled by his inappropriate remarks and behavior. She's a professional, however; he's clearly not.
 
Old 09-02-2018, 11:30 AM
 
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Taking advantage.....as usual, scum.

You could tell by her face how SHE took it.
Maybe "scum" is a little too far? But insensitive, certainly.
 
Old 09-02-2018, 02:35 PM
 
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He is a stupid pervert. Pervert by nature. Stupid because he knew he was being filmed.
 
Old 09-02-2018, 05:50 PM
 
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I got mixed feelings about the affair. The guy was 100 per cent out of place,,,maybe aging has something to do...the guy is a dinosaur unable to understand modern times and protocols so this situation was an accident waiting to happen. I wonder how many similar situations he protagonizes on an average day.

But ignoring the fact that showing up to a funeral dressed like if you went to a cocktail party would be creating an elephant in the room. Young women are supposed to show their bodies the 365 days of the year? Is not a funeral a situation when everybody must follow the protocols?

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Old 09-02-2018, 06:06 PM
 
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The still photo of him pulling her boob to the side is just too much. I cannot believe how far his hand is reaching.

He's a total pig.

And he's 60, not 100, he knows exactly what he's doing.

His Taco Bell joke I don't care about. I also don't care for Ariana since her donut licking episode. But for any man to touch a woman that far around her, to be touching her boob... it's not ok.
 
Old 09-02-2018, 06:08 PM
 
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He is a stupid pervert. Pervert by nature. Stupid because he knew he was being filmed.
Not sure why this is in "Psychology", but I agree with you. He knew exactly what he was doing.
 
Old 09-02-2018, 06:13 PM
 
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Not sure why this is in "Psychology", but I agree with you. He knew exactly what he was doing.
Psychology deals with thinking patterns and behavior, of which there is plenty in this situation.
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