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A positive attitude is required for anything you do.
But there's no magical connection between having a positive attitude and having all your dreams come true, either. There have been a lot of dashed dreams in this economy.
I never suggested that a positive attitude would prevent having one's dreams dashed, although I think it can help. The bigger point about things like this, in my opinion and in my experience, is that having a positive attitude makes the difference between dashed-dreams being a disaster, and being a learning experience. I think a positive attitude is very helpful in helping a person pick themselves up after their dreams are dashed, learn from it, and go ahead and do something else. And that's a very, very valuable experience for anyone to have throughout life. It makes it possible to take the chances and risks that are necessary to get ahead, without turning the frequent inevitable failures that result into catastrophes. The alternative is to not take chances or risks, or take only small ones, which makes it a lot harder to advance and grow in one's life. Obviously, the whole key is to find the right balance between risk-taking and playing it safe, and that balance point is different for different people. I still think that if the OP is more on the risk-taking, positive attitude end of the spectrum, it's not necessarily a crazy idea for him to try making the kind of move he's talking about. But if he's not, then it is a bad idea. I stand by that.
Agree. Especially with this: Obviously, the whole key is to find the right balance between risk-taking and playing it safe, and that balance point is different for different people.
And this: The bigger point about things like this, in my opinion and in my experience, is that having a positive attitude makes the difference between dashed-dreams being a disaster, and being a learning experience.
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Originally Posted by tompope
I never suggested that a positive attitude would prevent having one's dreams dashed, although I think it can help. The bigger point about things like this, in my opinion and in my experience, is that having a positive attitude makes the difference between dashed-dreams being a disaster, and being a learning experience. I think a positive attitude is very helpful in helping a person pick themselves up after their dreams are dashed, learn from it, and go ahead and do something else. And that's a very, very valuable experience for anyone to have throughout life. It makes it possible to take the chances and risks that are necessary to get ahead, without turning the frequent inevitable failures that result into catastrophes. The alternative is to not take chances or risks, or take only small ones, which makes it a lot harder to advance and grow in one's life. Obviously, the whole key is to find the right balance between risk-taking and playing it safe, and that balance point is different for different people. I still think that if the OP is more on the risk-taking, positive attitude end of the spectrum, it's not necessarily a crazy idea for him to try making the kind of move he's talking about. But if he's not, then it is a bad idea. I stand by that.
I never suggested that a positive attitude would prevent having one's dreams dashed, although I think it can help. The bigger point about things like this, in my opinion and in my experience, is that having a positive attitude makes the difference between dashed-dreams being a disaster, and being a learning experience. I think a positive attitude is very helpful in helping a person pick themselves up after their dreams are dashed, learn from it, and go ahead and do something else. And that's a very, very valuable experience for anyone to have throughout life. It makes it possible to take the chances and risks that are necessary to get ahead, without turning the frequent inevitable failures that result into catastrophes. The alternative is to not take chances or risks, or take only small ones, which makes it a lot harder to advance and grow in one's life. Obviously, the whole key is to find the right balance between risk-taking and playing it safe, and that balance point is different for different people. I still think that if the OP is more on the risk-taking, positive attitude end of the spectrum, it's not necessarily a crazy idea for him to try making the kind of move he's talking about. But if he's not, then it is a bad idea. I stand by that.
In a perfect world, anyone moving would already have their job lined up but that isn't always possible. Having money saved in case you don't find a job right away is a great idea.
I recently had a client come to town for 3 interviews and received 3 job offers!
She had a very positive attitude and felt like she was qualified for all the jobs. Employers note your attitude when you are being interviewed. There seem to be more folks looking for jobs than available jobs so having that positive attitude will only help.
This forthcoming May, I will be graduating with an Associate of Applied Science in Electromechanical Technology. And I wish to finally avail myself of the area I live in to move to a large, vibrant city that is really on the up-and-up. So let me lay down the facts of my situation and allow you to judge whether or not my plan for moving is sound:
I have some industrial electrical experience, a two-year degree, and a certificate from the NCCER. Nevertheless, I am willing to work whatever job I can find when I hit the pavement until I find a job in my field.
I will have approximately $12,000-14,000 to move and get set up.
I do not want an apartment to myself. I want to room with other people to reduce the cost of living.
I intend on creating this post in several forums of prospective locations to ascertain whether or not my plan is sound.
Many Technologist with way more qualifications (BS / MS several yrs work experience) then you are out of work in this area. Also quite a few companies are laying off as well.
Good luck!!! Expect to be looking for a very long time as 1yr minimum is not uncommon for those way qualified.
Many Technologist with way more qualifications (BS / MS several yrs work experience) then you are out of work in this area. Also quite a few companies are laying off as well.
Good luck!!! Expect to be looking for a very long time as 1yr minimum is not uncommon for those way qualified.
Agreed.
Sorry, but I believe a positive attitude and a great personality is only a portion of the picture. I do agree that sitting around thinking that you'll never get anywhere, or having the personality of a dishrag, certainly will not help one bit. But there are other factors to consider, and some can be daunting.
One factor is age .... that is a big one. No matter how gung-ho you might be, too many companies (not just here) see a few wrinkles and won't even send you a "drop dead" letter. Or they will look at a young person recently out of school, and refuse to consider that he or she might have the intelligence and drive to be an asset to the company. I do speak from experience, unfortunately. But I agree with others here that write that being hired is certainly not impossible ... just difficult. Difficult is not the same as impossible.
Saturation, as ncnotforme and others wrote, is another factor. Of course, one hears about people in one field making it big in an area already over-saturated with others in the profession. Those are the stories that touch our hearts. But too often, one does not hear about how most of those in the field fall through the cracks. We have had significant layoffs in many fields. And want ads may not give you a great picture. Too many companies are not really serious about hiring, or only are looking for people in a particular, narrow niche.
Up-and-coming? Sorry again. I don't see NC as up-and-coming right now, though of course, this can change. Like so many cities, we are experiencing some serious problems. I wish I can be proven wrong. Really, I do. PLEASE prove me wrong. But all I see around me are lots of "for sale" signs, sparsely-frequented stores and businesses constantly closing. I read how NC is having trouble with raising revenue re sales taxes. I read of how other indicators of growth, such as new construction and real estate sales, are faltering at best. I would welcome positive news.
A positive attitude and sterling personality is very important. But it needs to be balanced with a healthy dose of realism. If the OP has a solid Plan B (for instance, BadJuju might also have years of experience as a waiter, hairdresser, mechanic, HVAC repairman ....) or a job lined up (and this would be true of any state, not just here), then welcome to NC!
OP said he had $12,000-14,000 to get moved and set up. If he finds an apartment or house to share, and already has a reliable car, he can make that last a year with no employment or a minimum wage job.
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Especially with this: Obviously, the whole key is to find the right balance between risk-taking and playing it safe, and that balance point is different for different people. 
