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Old 08-03-2014, 06:32 PM
 
Location: Needham, MA
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I always find it weird when people do that, but some people are germ-a-phobes. I'm not sure that I would fire my real estate agent over it though.
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Old 08-04-2014, 11:00 AM
 
Location: DFW
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Never shake the left hand of many people. I'll let you figure this one out.
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Old 08-04-2014, 01:52 PM
 
Location: los angeles county
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Never shake the left hand of many people. I'll let you figure this one out.
ha. I had to google it.
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Old 08-04-2014, 01:58 PM
 
Location: City Data Land
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She might have high anxiety or OCD. She might have a kid with cancer at home and doesn't want to bring home viruses. I don't know. There are many personal reasons she may not want to do shake hands that have nothing to do with you.

I don't think it is an issue and wouldn't be so offended that I needed to retort in a snobby tone. I wasn't there, but maybe she needs to work on her presentation. Maybe she said it matter of factly and you overreacted, who knows.
This. My ex-husband had an odd variety of OCD that made him worried about germs in other places, but not at home. He wouldn't shake hands with strangers or touch many outside surfaces. Good grief, that got old. After I took him to a psychiatrist, he improved a great deal, however. Too bad our relationship didn't
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Old 08-04-2014, 11:23 PM
 
Location: Georgia
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Well, it's a little odd, for sure -- but by the same token, why cop an attitude over it? Would you have been less offended if she had whipped out latex gloves and put them on before she shook hands? Seems like a minor thing to get torqued over, especially if she seemed like a competent agent in other ways.
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Old 08-05-2014, 07:01 AM
 
Location: Oro Valley AZ.
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"Oh im sorry I don't shake hands , hug or touch strangers , germs don't you know " . I replied back "how prudent of you' in a snobby tone .
I think it is obvious which one of you two has the "real" issues.
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Old 08-05-2014, 07:36 AM
 
Location: Cary, NC
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Personally, I think it's dang weird.

I shake hands with all my clients!
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-XpeIBxjFnU
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Old 08-05-2014, 09:05 AM
 
Location: Oro Valley AZ.
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Great video! I find it a bit strange too, but still no reason to be rude to someone.
Coincidently this whole hand shake tradition was a topic of a talk show on TV a couple weeks ago, one host is a germ-a-phobe, doesn't shake hands and thinks the practice should be eliminated! So there are people out there that are paranoid about germs, anyone with compromised white cells have good reason, some are just paranoid, no reason to disrespect them.
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Old 08-05-2014, 12:24 PM
 
Location: Columbia, SC
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So she is a germophobe...doesn't affect her knowledge or ability to help a buyer. Not sure why you felt the need to be rude to someone over a quirk.
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Old 08-06-2014, 01:21 PM
 
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All I can say is that there will be a lot less handshaking once some of these viruses turn into pandemics. Just sayin'. Besides, this has nothing to do with whether someone is a real estate agent. Just ask Howie Mandell or Donald Trump.
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