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Like is he ever going to give you an explanation you will accept or understand? Don't think so. In fact it appears he probably does want to get back with you, so whatever **** and bull story he thinks you'll buy he'll go with. If he wasn't interested he wouldn't waste the time.
Women often search for all these deep seeded reasons and well most of the time it's pretty simple. Most likely he just liked banging that other chick yet like a lot of people wanted to try out the goods before buying which is why you were kept around for a while.
In any case, move on, else you'll be in the nursing home still having this conversation with this guy.
EGO, is edging God out. Believing you are hot chit and can't be topped. Believing you own it and control it.
Women suffer the same problem and it all revolves around looking for others to "fill you up" with whatever, to "make me happy". They are always constantly search, asking, begging, demanding. The answers are always within themselves but they contract out the responsibility to others.
And just get that there are just some stupid people out there that can't reason or think ahead or have a clue.
So I guess sex with the ex would be out of the question
HAHAHA! Crikey.
Sometimes it's like watching a train wreck happening. Nothing I can do but watch.
When women dive for the lowest common denominator it tells me something isn't right within them, something lacking. Sorry but there are a million other men out there.
Wow.....You have your apology..I knew it wouldn't end there.
I hope you're kidding...everytime you look at him..think about the three years you' spent recovering....while he was banging her......
That help??
Most men are very simple to understand when it comes down to it. But as a female who happens to really 'get' the male psyche, I can tell you that very few women do. And if you don't, you just don't. So OP...even if I told you why your guy left, you wouldn't understand it anyway because you're one of the vast majority of women that does not understand men. Sorry.
Most men are very simple to understand when it comes down to it. But as a female who happens to really 'get' the male psyche, I can tell you that very few women do. And if you don't, you just don't. So OP...even if I told you why your guy left, you wouldn't understand it anyway because you're one of the vast majority of women that does not understand men. Sorry.
Good post! Glad to see that some women are able to think outside themselves. Unfortunately rare in either Gender.
He didn't throw away a great loving relationship for an ego boost. He threw it away for some good hot "fresh" sex. That's not a mock on you. After many years being with the same person the urge for something new, something different, something more exciting is always there. After many years being with the same person, the same ol habits, same routines, nothing much to talk about anymore, mutual interests gone in different directions......bla bla bla.....we all change with age don't we......................
Most men are very simple to understand when it comes down to it. But as a female who happens to really 'get' the male psyche, I can tell you that very few women do. And if you don't, you just don't. So OP...even if I told you why your guy left, you wouldn't understand it anyway because you're one of the vast majority of women that does not understand men. Sorry.
Well, please don't be so secretive and spread the enlightenment!
The guy has major issues and its a good thing you're not getting back together with that guy. He obviously has major self-esteem problems and by going out with her it helped him to feel better about himself. What a loser. If you're not with someone now I hope you find a man who is truly deserving of you and who worships the ground you walk on. No one should ever have to go throught that kind of betrayal.
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