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the ones who read this article ,pls make some noise here!.tell me what do u think ?im confused!
I'm a university student and like shopping online much ,especially clothes.it's not becos i can't afford buying branded stuff .I just prefer online shopping .
But I have a boyfriend doing exactly the other way.He likes branded stuff.and he always tells me not to buy those cheap clothes online.we argue on it sometimes. The reason I got from him is that if his friends know me buying those "trash" clothes, they would look down on him.well!crap!I think it's funny,but i like him anyway.It's okay ,i can buy a bit less.
he knows I can't change my online shopping habbit.And finally we agree that I only buy stuff on the website of my best chinese friends gave me .it's really a cool one!
And here is an example: when My favourite site is doing sales promotion for 3 years' anniversary, I call my best friend telling her to shop with me!But does that mean a waste of money while he is actually buying branded stuff without any hesitation!??
one day,gues what!!!he told me to break up.Asking why? with tears,the anwser is which you already know!
who should say sorry? me？
Your ex-boyfriend is a shallow jerk and you're better off without him. Some guys are obsessed with clothing and brands... most are not. You'll find someone that will treat you with the respect you deserve.
You shouldn't really change to meet someone's needs unless it's something harmful or along those lines. There's absolutely nothing wrong with buying really cheap stuff. Better to save money than to blow it on something overpriced.
Your ex's friends are pretty shallow, honestly. I don't know why he was friends with them.
Most guys really arent that obsessed with clothes. But I doubt he broke up with you over clothes, sounds like it just wasnt working for him. If he really did break up with you over clothes then he is pretty immature and you deserve much better then that. I doubt many guys think that way
I see a red flag first of all - are you a shop-aholic? Do you buy things just to buy them. Do you buy in excess amounts all the time or a lot of stuff all the time because you think it costs less? Do you shop once a day, once a week, once a month? This habit is akin to dating a gambler - it's an addiction. The first sentence of your post says 'I like online shopping much' and 'he knows I can't change my online shopping habit'- that sends up a huge red flag to me. You've just said yourself it's a habit and you can't change it.
He may be shopping for quality and you are shopping for quantity. Shopping for quantity usually indicates trying to fill some sort of emotional hole. I, myself only do minimal shopping maybe twice a year and learned long, long ago that quality will beat quantity everytime. I didn't always think that way, but simply looking in my closet at what has lasted the longest (like years and years) and is still in style wasn't cheap.
I don't see anything in your post relative to it's title as to "Who should say sorry about a breakup" but my answer to that is no one. It's something that happens and happens for a reason at the time.
Last edited by Thursday007; 07-16-2010 at 04:39 AM..
This sounds like a manuscript proposal for an episode of "Keeping up with the Kardashians".
If he wants to break-up with you because you shop for online bargains, and he insists on rockin' the designer labels, just think what'll happen if you ever come down with a serious illness or end up scarred for life from a car accident. Not a likely scenario, but this doesn't sound like a guy who will stand by your side through the good and the bad. Why waste your tears on someone like that?
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