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Old 07-18-2010, 11:44 AM
 
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You tell your significant other that you love them and they respond with "whatever". What would you do?
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Old 07-18-2010, 11:49 AM
 
Location: Emerald Coast, FL
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Break up? Obviously, they're not into you.
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Old 07-18-2010, 11:49 AM
 
Location: Tennessee
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You tell your significant other that you love them and they respond with "whatever". What would you do?
"Tell them to kiss my....uh huh!"
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Old 07-18-2010, 11:49 AM
 
Location: Hawaii
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I'd leave the relationship. Only love those who can love you back.
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Old 07-18-2010, 11:52 AM
 
Location: Ohio
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You tell your significant other that you love them and they respond with "whatever". What would you do?

Probably ask him why he said "Whatever" or what has crawled up his butt and died.
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Old 07-18-2010, 11:54 AM
 
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Dump his behind right there. Tell him he can take his 'whatever' and go. Unless, of course, this is his standard dry humor response to everything and he does respond with 'I love you too' blah, blah most times or you are overdoing it in a needy fashion. I guess I'd need to know the context it was said in before I could really say.
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Old 07-18-2010, 11:55 AM
 
Location: New Hampshire
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Doesn't seem like you two have a future.

It reminds me of my sister and her ex-boyfriend. She told him she loved him and his response was "Cool".
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Old 07-18-2010, 11:58 AM
 
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You tell your significant other that you love them and they respond with "whatever". What would you do?
I'd have to know what went on prior to the person saying to the other that they loved them and other one responding,"Whatever."

If there was a disagreement or argument, that would be a contributing factor.

If there was no disagreement, then I personally wouldn't be telling the other person any longer that I loved them, using my gut intuition to figure out that they truly didn't feel the way I did and that I needed to spend future time with people who did care about me.

As we mature and go through life, we learn that situations aren't always by the book. A person has to learn to trust their inner gut feelings and go by them to protect themselves.
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Old 07-18-2010, 12:00 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Break up? Obviously, they're not into you.
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"Tell them to kiss my....uh huh!"
Combining these 2 works for me!
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Old 07-18-2010, 12:58 PM
 
Location: Outside always.
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Sorry, but he wouldn't get an opportunity to tell me "whatever" again. I would be gone before he could catch his breath. You can do better, and you deserve more than that lame response.
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