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In the beginging stages of a relationship, do they allways get scared and start freaking out?
I read something similar in "Mars and Venus" years back, so I am just going with it, but don't actions speak louder than words?
If they say, for example, "we need to slow things down a bit so I can het my life back on track"...... in my mind, that means, ok, not interested, mabey I should move on, but then the ACTIONS, say the opposite..... texting and calling all day, and rushing right over after work and spending the night.
Then, a few days later saying something similar, I am all "ok then, let's just be friends and see how it goes,".... then the same thing.... WTH??
Please don't tell me you are hoping the guy who blows you off is really just scared of commitment and that you're hoping he will settle down with you.
But he hasn't actually blown me off..... he just panicks and says he wants to slow down, I agree, and then comes rushing back like a drug addict.... so mixed messages there.
so am I beeing bitchy when I just keep saying "fine lets just be friends then?"
Go get the book. It's not what you think. The title is deceptive. It really is just a fun book about all the mistakes we make in the beginning of a relationship. It's a good read. Take from it what you can.
Which guy is it now? Olympics guy or the player dude?
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