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Old 08-24-2010, 07:38 PM
 
Location: Iowa, Heartland of Murica
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What the hell is up with women who expect you to chase them? Most women I have met lately are pretty good about showing you that they may be interested but I have dated a couple women who seem to expect you to chase them.

I am thinking most guys out there probably think like I do but if you don't show any sign of interest after a few dates and I can't figure you out, I am sorry but I am not going to pursue you any further.

I met 2 women that did just this and I ended up giving up after a week or so, I am sorry but I aint gonna spend hours trying to figure out what the hell is going through your head if you don't make yourself clear.

I am thinking it is probably some sort of game and I don't have time for BS like this, oh well!
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Old 08-24-2010, 07:40 PM
 
Location: Armsanta Sorad
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I wouldn't even waste my time on those types of people.
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Old 08-24-2010, 07:41 PM
 
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Yeah, it's much easier if they just throw themselves at you the way good sl*ts should.
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Old 08-24-2010, 07:43 PM
 
Location: Hawaii
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Maybe they just weren't that into you.
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Old 08-24-2010, 07:44 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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With you, it's damn if they do, damn if they don't, which at the end works out to their advantage - they dodge a major bullet!
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Old 08-24-2010, 07:48 PM
 
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She doesn't want to be chased, she's trying to get away from you!
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Old 08-24-2010, 07:49 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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They don't like dip
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Old 08-24-2010, 07:53 PM
 
Location: DFW
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She doesn't want to be chased, she's trying to get away from you!
I was about to explain the difference between chase and run. You did it well.

You think it was the mother / daughter tag team ?
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Old 08-24-2010, 08:00 PM
 
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Women are told not to show too much interest so the guy doesn't think they are needy which is a turn off. So it may be a game to reel you in. Kind of dumb. Maybe after they are not called back a lot of times with this game they will be more friendly.
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Old 08-24-2010, 08:07 PM
 
Location: Iowa, Heartland of Murica
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Women are told not to show too much interest so the guy doesn't think they are needy which is a turn off. So it may be a game to reel you in. Kind of dumb. Maybe after they are not called back a lot of times with this game they will be more friendly.
I think it is a game, because I have enough common sense to know when a woman is not interested but the two women who did this are in their 40's. I thought women in their 40's were done with playing games but maybe they just play different types of games.

One of them is actually a very nice lady, I was interested in her in the beginning and she is on my Facebook but I can never tell exactly what she wants, I asked her if she wanted to go grab dinner last Sun, like it would be our 2nd date, she said YES but then never followed up, I think she does it on purpose to see if I will come after her, I am definitely not chasing her!
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