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Or what about someone you sleep with on the first date?
I thought of this after ItWasWritten's topic on how long to wait to have sex.
Most of my guy friends have said no because she gave it up so quickly. Any relationship they have after that will be casual or booty call only because she didnt make him wait.
Interstingly enough, most of my female friends said yes, if they were attracted to them or if it was really amazing sex.
Or what about someone you sleep with on the first date?
I thought of this after ItWasWritten's topic on how long to wait to have sex.
Most of my guy friends have said no because she gave it up so quickly. Any relationship they have after that will be casual or booty call only because she didnt make him wait.
Interstingly enough, most of my female friends said yes, if they were attracted to them or if it was really amazing sex.
Your guy friends must be either really young and naive or just plain stupid. Let me guess: These same guys also pizz and moan about women who "play games," right?
Please.
No offense, but come on, what is this, the 1950s?
I had a two-and-a-half-year relationship with someone I met in a bar. My SO and I fooled around on our first date--four years ago.
Your guy friends must be either really young and naive or just plain stupid. Let me guess: These same guys also pizz and moan about women who "play games," right?
Please.
No offense, but come on, what is this, the 1950s?
I had a two-and-a-half-year relationship with someone I met in a bar. My SO and I fooled around on our first date--four years ago.
This "giving it up too quickly" crap needs to GO.
LOL no surprisingly they are all in relationships and never had a problem dealing with women or getting women. You would think they were young based of their responses though huh lol. One of my friends married a guy she went hoem with the day they met (in a bar!) lol so I know not all guys (and girls) think like that
Interstingly enough, most of my female friends said yes, if they were attracted to them or if it was really amazing sex.
I don't think that you can plan a serious long-term relationship based upon one night of attraction, let alone one night of hot sex.
That being said, it could be the start of something - just realize that relationships are not a static thing - they need to grow, over time, in order to fully develop. A relationship based upon a single night's dream hook-up might quickly become a long-term nightmare.
Or what about someone you sleep with on the first date?
The quick answer is yes, but a few other comments are called for.
The likelihood of it working is low. For one thing, the likelihood of any two randomly selected people clicking on the personal emotional levels needed for falling deeply in love is not high. Since the two are physically attracted well enough to have sex, the odds are somewhat better, but still not good. Why? Primarily because most men (and many women) will sometimes frack anything that moves. (Fans of Battlestar Galactica will know what "frack" means. The rest of you will just have to guess) If you expand your notion of "relationship" to include friends with benefits (which can sometimes be an nice option) the odds improve, but are still not very good in the long run.
Bottom line: Most people can separate love and sex, and thus they are willing to have sex with people who they could never realistically fall in love with. In fact they are willing to have sex with people who they might otherwise find too boring or annoying to even hang out with as freinds. This is not a terrible thing. We don't need to fall in love with people we play tennis with, or people we eat dinner with. Sex can be just recreational fun.
But, of course, if you like the way someone plays tennis, and you play tennis with them enough so that you get to know them, then you might end up falling in love. It happens.
Or what about someone you sleep with on the first date?
I thought of this after ItWasWritten's topic on how long to wait to have sex.
Most of my guy friends have said no because she gave it up so quickly. Any relationship they have after that will be casual or booty call only because she didnt make him wait.
Interstingly enough, most of my female friends said yes, if they were attracted to them or if it was really amazing sex.
You can't "make" a relationship out of anything. If the ingredients are there, then it will happen. Why do people think they can force these things?
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) If you expand your notion of "relationship" to include friends with benefits (which can sometimes be an nice option) the odds improve, but are still not very good in the long run.
You can't "make" a relationship out of anything. If the ingredients are there, then it will happen. Why do people think they can force these things? 
