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Leave him
Clean it up
Overlook it
Convince him to clean it
Totally agree! You got a problem with it, then there are your options. Are you waiting for someone to say "aww I'm sorry you had to deal with that slob"? FAIL.
maybe he is looking for a womn with some housekeeping skills.
you may have played your cards wrong...
I'm sure there are plenty of squeeky clean guys with plenty of other problems for you to run around with..
have fun...
Where did you come from with this stupid comment.
We always advice women to lower her standards for a man. A guy would never date a filthy woman. Unless, he's a pig and just trying to hit and run.
She was with this guy too long anyway. He had issues and a filthy house. How are you comfortable in a mess. How can you get comfortable to stay the night.
Come to mind, those dumb azz women dating the hoarders. Really, are we that desperate for a guy. GEESH!
Ha! this was a great post and I do feel your frustration but Coolhand has it right, this could be a big issue down the road if you would have moved forward in the relationship. Kudos to you for sticking to what you want and not settling for something less than that. And no, you are not his maid or anyone elses for that matter. Be a grown up and clean up after yourself.
Ha! this was a great post and I do feel your frustration but Coolhand has it right, this could be a big issue down the road if you would have moved forward in the relationship. Kudos to you for sticking to what you want and not settling for something less than that. And no, you are not his maid or anyone elses for that matter. Be a grown up and clean up after yourself.
Thanks..Im not waiting for him. Im not settling. ..He did me a favor..I went out with my neighbor this weekend..I had fun..No way Im not staying home and crying..
Oh the funny thing he wants me to wait until his daughter gets married and he said he will sell the trailer and put money down on a house. I almost died laughing..
Thanks..Im not waiting for him. Im not settling. ..He did me a favor..I went out with my neighbor this weekend..I had fun..No way Im not staying home and crying..
Oh the funny thing he wants me to wait until his daughter gets married and he said he will sell the trailer and put money down on a house. I almost died laughing..
Jeez who can't see through that..Of course he did, your cleaning services are needed or he'll have to give the trailer away.
Seems like he needs to get some things straightened up, but did I read this correctly...
He gets mad and asks you to leave him alone for a bit, and in response you go out on dates.
But then you complain that you don't have him there to lean on when you're going through tough times.
Contradictory? You hardly seem emotionally invested either
Seems like he needs to get some things straightened up, but did I read this correctly...
He gets mad and asks you to leave him alone for a bit, and in response you go out on dates.
But then you complain that you don't have him there to lean on when you're going through tough times.
Contradictory? You hardly seem emotionally invested either
Go back and read the posts..Then you'll understand..
If you think I need to be emotionally invested in some guy who obvious dont care about the relationship we had...I dont waste my time.
She should have asked him where the dishwasher was.
If there was no dishwasher, she should have grabbed a washrag, put the plug in the sink, fill with hot water and some Dawn, and snap to it..
The bottom of the kitchen cabinets are recessed for a reason.
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