Vasectomy- should I go or should I stay? (family, children, sex)

[Chowhound]

Originally Posted by Rakin

You always start your posts like this. No one cares, it's not about you.

Yep... I've been thinking the same thing for a while now..... good post...

[glenmorangie]

Originally Posted by Rakin

You always start your posts like this. No one cares, it's not about you.

Someone's been paying attention!

[Rakin]

Originally Posted by mmosher5

I just came across this thread and while it is 5 1/2 years later I am hoping the original poster may see it and let me know her outcome. .

You can click on her name and find her last post which was back in 2008. I assume she's long gone.

You have a tough call but it's the age where you've got to have a serious talk and make a decision.

[SD4020]

Originally Posted by Idon'tdateyou

I would NEVER date a man.

And no man would date you.

No one cares who you won't date. No one.

[Raena77]

Originally Posted by SD4020

And no man would date you.

No one cares who you won't date. No one.

[Idon'tdateyou]

Originally Posted by Rakin

You always start your posts like this. No one cares, it's not about you.

I was responding like anyone else.

[Idon'tdateyou]

Originally Posted by Chowhound

Aren't you like 45 or so??? why is this such an issue for you..... getting preggers in your 40's isn't a great idea, too many complications.... you'd be better off adopting....

I'm not 45, but a woman is able to become pregnant until menopause. It is a big issue because a man like this isn't religious enough.

[Idon'tdateyou]

Originally Posted by Chowhound

Yep... I've been thinking the same thing for a while now..... good post...

Actually it was a personal attack as I have every right to respond as anyone else but because I am an older woman apparently I must have to accept something my religion opposes.

[Idon'tdateyou]

Originally Posted by SD4020

At your age it will very soon be a moot point.

Not hardly and why does that matter? a man with a vasectomy is not for me.

[Idon'tdateyou]

Originally Posted by Mikala43

Your in your 40s, unless you've been to the doctor to confirm you are still fertile, why would you care if a guy had a vasectomy?

Once again BECAUSE IT IS AGAINST MY RELIGION. He did something my religion opposes and yes my doctor told me I am still fertile. Having a vasectomy is against God.