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Location: Where ocean meets up with the naked land.
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Originally Posted by HurricaneDC
Who here sometimes feels like a loner? Maybe you're truly alone, with your only social interactions coming from saying hi to your coworkers and the pizza delivery guy. Maybe you have a few friends, but they're not always there for you, and you certainly don't have a sweet lady / wonderful man by your side. Whatever your situation, you feel alone and it may or may not bug you.
I'm sitting here in my room at 10PM on a Saturday night. Some might say not just any Saturday night, but the night of the first day of the new year. There are people out there laughing, living and loving, having a party for the second day in a row. Perhaps 'sampling some goods' from a looker they met at another party. Maybe spending the night in, sharing cheese and fine wine with a significant other. And you know what? This is how the majority of my Saturday nights have been for about five years.
Why don't you dim your lights down low, sit in a Freudian looking couch and listen to some Barry Manilow. My gosh, can you be any more depressing??
Of course I'm a loner. I don't dwell on it. I deal with it. If you truly feel bothered by it, I suggest you join a book club. You are able to examine other people's personalities once they give their opinions on a book. This method easily eliminates all the bad friends and highlights potentially good friends.
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Originally Posted by HurricaneDC
Who here sometimes feels like a loner? Maybe you're truly alone, with your only social interactions coming from saying hi to your coworkers and the pizza delivery guy. Maybe you have a few friends, but they're not always there for you, and you certainly don't have a sweet lady / wonderful man by your side. Whatever your situation, you feel alone and it may or may not bug you.
I'm sitting here in my room at 10PM on a Saturday night. Some might say not just any Saturday night, but the night of the first day of the new year. There are people out there laughing, living and loving, having a party for the second day in a row. Perhaps 'sampling some goods' from a looker they met at another party. Maybe spending the night in, sharing cheese and fine wine with a significant other. And you know what? This is how the majority of my Saturday nights have been for about five years.
I'm kind of a loner too. Ever since I moved from NoVA to KY I've spent every night in my bed by myself. I'm used to it but am trying to break out of the box.
samston, you are by far one of the most unproductive and non-contributing members of this forum. Pretty much everything you post is some misanthropic, 9th grade angsty teenager bull**** and you'd do the world a favor if you just shut the hell up for once. I'd rather read a million threads from tvsg than see more of the drivel you post. Welcome to my ignore list, you're the first :d
The first thing you need to accept is that you are going to have to operate out of your comfort zone. The first think you need to do is put a plan in writing. Believe in yourself, have confidence and be motivated to change. You can achieve anything you put your mind to.
HurricaneDC, this is bad news for us (since we're sophomores), but I notice groups form when people are freshmen. When you're entering college, everyone is eager to meet people. Once the groups are established, they're not so eager to meet people anymore.
Meeting people is tough. I went out after work twice in the past week. Headed to bars for dinner and a few drinks with hopes of meeting some people. Didn't happen. But I must admit my local bar scene isn't for me. It's a college crowd and I'm like an old man. Running out of ideas fast.
Hang in there Hurricane and hope for the best. I'm down and out a lot but still hold hope that the law averages works out and the ball will bounce in my court one day.
and college people you can totally make friends. get out there! talk to ppl in your classes.
you dont need any creative icebreaker
just say Hi I'm BlahBlahBlah and offer your hand.
eazy.
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