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I've dated a younger guy with a problem. Briefly dated. Told me, it has happened in the past. We laid there and talked. I said, oh that's okay. I just thought it was the first time nerves.
I gave him another try. The soldier, well a partial show. I went home. I tried to turn him into a girlfriend. It lasted for awhile, but he wanted to have sex, so I ended it.
It doesn't matter how good you are at snake charming. If the snake is tired or a sleep, he won't proform.
Every woman, at some point, finds herself in a situation where her man can't get it up. What should a woman do or say in the moment? As women, we always hear what we should never do (like criticize him) but no one advises us on what we should do or say to make him feel better about the event. Advice gents?
Tell your man its ok...thats why god gave them fingers and tongues..
Every woman, at some point, finds herself in a situation where her man can't get it up. What should a woman do or say in the moment? As women, we always hear what we should never do (like criticize him) but no one advises us on what we should do or say to make him feel better about the event. Advice gents?
Continue enjoying the moment
Do you enjoy physical intimacy without necessarily "sealing the deal"? Massages, running hand through hair, simply holding each other and talking and laughing
when it comes to making winky respond it's most on the man, in his mind
the only thing the woman can do is help him relax. Be re-assuring... ease the tension in the air... give him good feelings... all the things you like a man to do to help you relax and bring you back to the moment
Dead fish and fugly should look in the mirror IMO. The it's a "chore" attitude doesn't help either. It's always common to blame the dude. Sometimes things don't open up or get slippery enough either!
It could be any number of things, physical or mental. OP left too much info out. How old is man, how long have they been together, any stress going on right now (job loss, death in family, etc.), health issues, etc.
Many men go through temporary stages like this. It may only last a short time. As long as there's no pressing physical issues, ease off a bit on intercourse. Trying to force it could turn a temporary problem into something more long lasting.
There are other ways to have sexual relations. Try oral, fondling, role playing, toys, etc. Sex does not have to equal intercourse. Take the pressure off by enjoying each other without the expectation of finishing with intercourse. At this time, affection is more important than a stiff d**k.
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