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jeepgirl27 · 02-28-2011, 06:54 AM

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Originally Posted by redfish1

myself and a few guys I work with had this discusion the other day and to my surprise not one of them said this would fly in a LTR.
I would like to here both men and womens opinions on this.

HELL NO...Thats a big part of sex..

cdubs3201 · 02-28-2011, 07:01 AM

I personally love doing it, but I also love receiving it. I don't think this would pass for me either.

It also speaks to their sexual desire to explore or try new things. If they aren't even willing to do oral, then how boring is your sex life going to be if you stay with this person?

Raging-Hetero · 02-28-2011, 07:05 AM

No way.

Pear Martini · 02-28-2011, 07:17 AM

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Originally Posted by SifuPhil

Do you happen to recall a link for that? It just sounds so wrong...medically speaking...

Sure, Oral sex is 'bigger cause of throat cancer than tobacco' | Mail Online

^^explaining the oral sex-HPV-cancer connection.

Phoenix2017 · 02-28-2011, 07:21 AM

Yes, I would gladly date a girl or be in a LTR, without any expectations at all for oral s*x -- oral s*x is disgusting, IMO. I have no desire for that.

Quote:

Originally Posted by redfish1

myself and a few guys I work with had this discusion the other day and to my surprise not one of them said this would fly in a LTR.
I would like to here both men and womens opinions on this.

Nite Ryder · 02-28-2011, 07:34 AM

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Originally Posted by stressedCollegeGirl89

Nope, it would be a definite dealbreaker for me. I don't mind giving it, but I love getting it!

This would be my answer also...

TaoistDude · 02-28-2011, 07:39 AM

I'd say it would be extremely unlikely, but I couldn't entirely rule out the slight possibility that there could be compensatory reasons.

occhi_di_gato · 02-28-2011, 07:41 AM

Yes, I could and I have. Sexual pleasure comes in many ways, if one doesn't work for both of us, then there are n others to try.

mom2justynsarah · 02-28-2011, 07:45 AM

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Originally Posted by redfish1

myself and a few guys I work with had this discusion the other day and to my surprise not one of them said this would fly in a LTR.
I would like to here both men and womens opinions on this.

It would bother me. But as long as everything else was good, I would deal with it.

d-boy-80 · 02-28-2011, 07:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Ron.

No oral.........wow!

That's the tastiest part of sex.

Needless to say, you know how I feel about it.

What? Bored cause you are not getting any