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That's all honky dorey when you are a teen or early to mid twenties but sometime there has to come an end to all the madness. Otherwise, that's just what you will be doing twenty years from now..... playing the field and still SINGLE!!! Maybe I'm off when I never looked at a gal as a sport or just having fun? I don't have time for that s&*^ er......stuff anymore.
I had relationships and I dated in my 20s. I never considered any of it sh*t or madness. Most folk were fun and it was all pretty nice.
Well, as much as we would like to be.... many of US aren't in our 20's anymore.
Very true. But, I was under the impression (from previous posts) that the OP is young and that we're addressing folk in their 20s, which is typical dating years. For those into the 30s and beyond that are not married, no doubt your approach varies. I'm not sure how I would approach dating middle-aged. Maybe I would rush it a bit, but that wouldn't be my first instinct at least.
Do you gals know what "I" THINK? Your whole lives you have been messed over, used, abused, and given the runaround. When you finally find one that says...."let's do this" you freak out because he doesn't have a game or an ulterior motive. I think it scares them. No, we won't be tying the knot tomorrow. But dammit, I'd like a LT GF!
Very true. But, I was under the impression (from previous posts) that the OP is young and that we're addressing folk in their 20s, which is typical dating years. For those into the 30s and beyond that are not married, no doubt your approach varies. I'm not sure how I would approach dating middle-aged. Maybe I would rush it a bit, but that wouldn't be my first instinct at least.
Well yeah! When I was 19, I was going over 100 MPH and giving the chickens the middle finger.
I take commitment too seriously to rush into it. Becoming exclusive with someone you don't know well is madness in my opinion.
"One" is hard enough to find. Let alone 3-5-10. Women never beat down guys doors like men do to them. I think that is why most of the opinions in this thread from men are the same or similar to mine. Perhaps when some gals quit thinking of men as disposable garbage they might find a good one?
Do you gals know what "I" THINK? Your whole lives you have been messed over, used, abused, and given the runaround. When you finally find one that says...."let's do this" you freak out because he doesn't have a game or an ulterior motive. I think it scares them. No, we won't be tying the knot tomorrow. But dammit, I'd like a LT GF!
True. Tried to rep ya.
Also, sometimes the reason is we don't really consider how we feel until we are confronted. Like the timing is off where the guy is falling faster than her but gets too heavy and puts on a lot of pressure. That can kill anything good between them.
Also, sometimes the reason is we don't really consider how we feel until we are confronted. Like the timing is off where the guy is falling faster than her but gets too heavy and puts on a lot of pressure. That can kill anything good between them.
I just walk off the set with my head down for awhile. Someday it will come back up.
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I don't have time for that s&*^ er......stuff
anymore.
But dammit, I'd like a LT GF!
