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He answered the door in a dengy, raggedy and pit stained tshirt. Counting every cent when I ordered. Wow, you gonna get that. That cost ...
Needless to say, one and done.
You know what? In every date I've ever been on, I am always on time and the woman is always late.
It's one of my biggest pet peeves. Being late.
And even though I don't earn a ton of money, I always treat my dates. I don't care what they order for food, what movie they want to see, what we do after, I always insist on paying(at least on the first date). I'm old fashioned in this sense, seeing as one of the last things my grandfather told me before passing away was "No matter what, you always treat the girl right, and you always pay. It's the right thing to do."
That being said, I've had some bad evenings, particularly in the past few months of just getting a number and getting dates. Being rejected throughout the entire evening is just part of the game, but it still gets depressing at times.
The other thing that I consider as a bad night, would be getting a call from a friend saying "Party at X, there will be girls and there will be drinking." So I show up well-dressed, decently groomed with confidence, when in reality it's just one huge sausage party and there's a bunch of single guys staring at each other.
You know what? In every date I've ever been on, I am always on time and the woman is always late.
It's one of my biggest pet peeves. Being late.
And even though I don't earn a ton of money, I always treat my dates. I don't care what they order for food, what movie they want to see, what we do after, I always insist on paying(at least on the first date). I'm old fashioned in this sense, seeing as one of the last things my grandfather told me before passing away was "No matter what, you always treat the girl right, and you always pay. It's the right thing to do."
That being said, I've had some bad evenings, particularly in the past few months of just getting a number and getting dates. Being rejected throughout the entire evening is just part of the game, but it still gets depressing at times.
The other thing that I consider as a bad night, would be getting a call from a friend saying "Party at X, there will be girls and there will be drinking." So I show up well-dressed, decently groomed with confidence, when in reality it's just one huge sausage party and there's a bunch of single guys staring at each other.
Something similar. My friend's friend was having a party. A classy affair. All dolled up and get there. Nothing, but old women and old men. It was like partying with my uncles and aunts. A bad night.
When my husband and I worked together we went to a coworker/friend's new year's eve party. One of our other coworkers was there that we were friendly with, she was a really bubbly, cheerful, positive person everyone at work liked. Well, she got reeeaaally drunk and started hyperventilating and bawling about how her pos boyfriend hasn't had a job in 8 years and does nothing to help around the house or with the kids and she works her a** off and does everything and on top of that she thinks he's cheating and blah blah blah. The entire party was ruined because everyone was focused on her and trying to calm her down and cheer her up. A couple people went into the bedroom with her to try to contain her and we would start talking or whatever again and she'd come back out again periodically screaming about whatever. For some stupid reason, someone eventually called her boyfriend, I think just to come and pick her up, but still, dumb move, they were fighting on the phone for like an hour. We just eventually left because it was impossible to have a conversation let alone any fun. So weird to see her like that because she was the cutest, most positive person at work.
A friend once punched a light out at his house (accidentally) at a party he was having while telling us a story about a fight he was in. That wasn't a nightmare though it was funny as hell especially because he just tried to continue the story in the dark like nothing happened. Just kind of extreme and funny and worth sharing I thought.
At a different party that same guy was having, some stupid douche bag wouldn't stop playing the mandolin and trying to be unique and cool and was annoying everyone by talking about (and playing) the mandolin. (he was playing it while other music was playing! how could you think that's pleasant?) Eventually my husband said some insulting joke to him and all that did was make him focus on us and start some stupid conversation with us about what music we like and dropping little obscure comments he thought would make him sound cool and open minded but really he was just being fake and annoying blah blah blah.. hard to explain I guess, but it was so damn annoying and douchey...
This is sort of funny/campy and nightmarish actually. It happened over a year ago. But my friend and I went to an industrial nightclub to listen to music and check out the enormous paintings they have featured on their walls. Well, that night it turns out some artists were getting "married" at the nightclub. The entire place was decorated in cobwebs, fake skulls, black roses, and naked body painting art was going on in the corner. Women were walking around half nude covered in paint: some people had S&M masks and chains on; others with togas and mardi gras masks. The two people who got married were dressed in costumes; one as an angel: the other as a demon. It was outrageous!!!! I was a little scared by the people so we left after 45 minutes.
Wow, that IS freakish and creepy! To each his/her own, but that ain't MY cup of tea!
And even though I don't earn a ton of money, I always treat my dates. I don't care what they order for food, what movie they want to see, what we do after, I always insist on paying(at least on the first date). I'm old fashioned in this sense, seeing as one of the last things my grandfather told me before passing away was "No matter what, you always treat the girl right, and you always pay. It's the right thing to do."
Okay, there is something soooo desirable about a man that takes advice from his grandpa and respects and admires his grandfather enough to follow that advice.
It belongs in the same category as fuzzy little kitties...just makes you go "AWwwwwwwwwwWWW"
Well, after one bad experience, I refuse to go to house party's thrown by guys who play college lacrosse. The guy I talked to at the party wouldn't let me leave at the end of the night and pinned me up against the wall. After several failed attempts to drag me upstairs by my arm (forcefully) a bunch of stoner's sitting on the couch playing video games tackled the guy and told me to "leave before things got ugly". I have no doubt that guy would have raped me that night seeing as how I was trashed, but I managed to get home safely.
Learned my lesson. Never again.
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