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Old 03-18-2011, 12:49 AM
 
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I just don't understand how anyone can brag about having sex with 200 or more people. Man or woman! I recently met a guy who told me that he slept with 200 women and did I want to be 201? LOL Sorry to me that is disgusting. A person like that seems like they would be a walking std. Even 50 partners seems a little excessive. Does anyone else find having excessive partners gross?
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Old 03-18-2011, 12:56 AM
 
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Does anyone else find having excessive partners gross?
Yes. Unfortunately, before I became a Christian and married I was one of them. Now, I have been faithful to my wife for over 30 years and will be to the end. People can change with God's help.
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Old 03-18-2011, 12:57 AM
 
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I just don't understand how anyone can brag about having sex with 200 or more people. Man or woman! I recently met a guy who told me that he slept with 200 women and did I want to be 201? LOL Sorry to me that is disgusting. A person like that seems like they would be a walking std. Even 50 partners seems a little excessive. Does anyone else find having excessive partners gross?
you should have told him he was a male *****.
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Old 03-18-2011, 12:58 AM
 
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you should have told him he was a male *****.
Male prostitute. Can I use the word prostitute?
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Old 03-18-2011, 01:06 AM
 
Location: Southwest France
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Tell him to pull your other leg.
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Old 03-18-2011, 01:14 AM
 
Location: Columbia, California
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It has often been said for speaking of number of lovers.
You take the man's quote and divide by 3 to get the correct amount.
You take a woman's count and multiply by 3 to get the correct amount.
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Old 03-18-2011, 01:30 AM
 
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You know, normally I stay out of these threads. But I do have one thought to convey. If you choose to have only one sexual partner, for example if you save that for marriage, I respect and understand that. What I don't get is why you have to force your morality onto someone else by calling their lifestyle disgusting?

Isn't it enough to know that you would not do something that they would do? Why do you find it necessary to pass judgment on someone else when most people in your position would probably say

'yeah, sure, and I'm the tooth fairy'

I'm just curious why you feel the need to pass judgement. You may not understand or even know anything about this other person, yet you find it so easy to call it disgusting.

I don't know. I thought people had layers. I thought they were multifaceted, but according to you they are disgusting.

I'd also like to know why you felt it necessary to state this to people when the object of your statement is not present?

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Old 03-18-2011, 02:20 AM
 
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You know, normally I stay out of these threads. But I do have one thought to convey. If you choose to have only one sexual partner, for example if you save that for marriage, I respect and understand that. What I don't get is why you have to force your morality onto someone else by calling their lifestyle disgusting?

Isn't it enough to know that you would not do something that they would do? Why do you find it necessary to pass judgment on someone else when most people in your position would probably say

'yeah, sure, and I'm the tooth fairy'

I'm just curious why you feel the need to pass judgement. You may not understand or even know anything about this other person, yet you find it so easy to call it disgusting.

I don't know. I thought people had layers. I thought they were multifaceted, but according to you they are disgusting.

I'd also like to know why you felt it necessary to state this to people when the object of your statement is not present?
Oh well,you know the people who post on cd are the most moral,upstanding people ever alive who do nothing wrong.At least that's what I gather from reading these posts.
The truth of the matter is everything I read on cd doesn't happen in real life.
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Old 03-18-2011, 05:46 AM
 
Location: SXSW
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You know, normally I stay out of these threads. But I do have one thought to convey. If you choose to have only one sexual partner, for example if you save that for marriage, I respect and understand that. What I don't get is why you have to force your morality onto someone else by calling their lifestyle disgusting?

Isn't it enough to know that you would not do something that they would do? Why do you find it necessary to pass judgment on someone else when most people in your position would probably say

'yeah, sure, and I'm the tooth fairy'

I'm just curious why you feel the need to pass judgement. You may not understand or even know anything about this other person, yet you find it so easy to call it disgusting.

I don't know. I thought people had layers. I thought they were multifaceted, but according to you they are disgusting.

I'd also like to know why you felt it necessary to state this to people when the object of your statement is not present?
True but 200 women? Gross. I could understand if a guy has slept with at most, say 10 women in his lifetime. 200 turns a person into a walking STD. If you're a guy, sure you can sleep with 200 women, but many women will write you off immediately. A man who has slept with that many women is someone who desperately needs constant validation and his lack of self restraint likely has spilled into other areas of his life.
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Old 03-18-2011, 05:52 AM
 
Location: NC
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True but 200 women? Gross. I could understand if a guy has slept with at most, say 10 women in his lifetime. 200 turns a person into a walking STD. If you're a guy, sure you can sleep with 200 women, but many women will write you off immediately. A man who has slept with that many women is someone who desperately needs constant validation and his lack of self restraint likely has spilled into other areas of his life.
Actually, it only takes one partner to get an STD.
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