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Old 05-05-2011, 08:58 AM
 
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No, it just means you found someone who agrees with you. If two people think the sky is green, that doesn't mean the sky is actually green. They'd both be guilty of NOT recognizing reality.
Maybe one day I'll walk you through a typical internet singles site and I'll let you see how I contact those average to plain looking and overweight NY females. Then I'll show you the non results, the ones who show interest and then change their mind, the ones who meet me and then later say "You're a nice guy and you're everything a girl could want and ooh ooh I just KNOW that you'll make some girl very very happy but so sorry, I felt no chemistry so you may have yourself a very nice life (without me)".
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Old 05-05-2011, 10:08 AM
 
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Maybe but in my experience what JBT says is correct so what my posts say about me is that I recognize reality.
Sweetie, and I say this gently, because overall I think you're an interesting, funny person. In your perception what JBT says is correct. How far has this viewpoint gotten you? Do you have the relationship you want yet? Does JBT?

Women can smell dislike of our sex in general from waaaaaaaaay off. I know you're thinking "Oh, I do like women!" but go back now and read some of your posts. You are very angry at women. You feel they deserve way less than they feel they deserve. They know it, even if they can't pinpoint this in words. And they back off.
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Old 05-05-2011, 10:40 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Sweetie, and I say this gently, because overall I think you're an interesting, funny person. In your perception what JBT says is correct. How far has this viewpoint gotten you? Do you have the relationship you want yet? Does JBT?

Women can smell dislike of our sex in general from waaaaaaaaay off. I know you're thinking "Oh, I do like women!" but go back now and read some of your posts. You are very angry at women. You feel they deserve way less than they feel they deserve. They know it, even if they can't pinpoint this in words. And they back off.
I can't rep you again - but I totally agree.
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Old 05-05-2011, 10:48 AM
 
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No and your post just means that someone who doesn't agree with us found me. Get your head out of the sand or any other place and go recognize reality, will ya?
I recognize it just fine.

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Old 05-05-2011, 10:52 AM
 
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Sweetie, and I say this gently, because overall I think you're an interesting, funny person. In your perception what JBT says is correct. How far has this viewpoint gotten you? Do you have the relationship you want yet? Does JBT?

Women can smell dislike of our sex in general from waaaaaaaaay off. I know you're thinking "Oh, I do like women!" but go back now and read some of your posts. You are very angry at women. You feel they deserve way less than they feel they deserve. They know it, even if they can't pinpoint this in words. And they back off.
lol i love when people act like women have some enlightened sense of judging peoples character that Men dont and can sense any little thing wheter it be lack of confidence negative thoughts etc if that were the case youd never have posts like you do here of women being burned by guys they thought were good men but werent..

I know plenty of good looking misognyists who do fine with women..I guess womens instincts arent always great..
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Old 05-05-2011, 10:56 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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I know plenty of good looking misognyists who do fine with women..
It depends on your definition of "doing fine with women." Do you mean getting laid? One-night stand? Or an actual, functional relationship between two people who like and respect each other?
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Old 05-05-2011, 11:00 AM
 
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It depends on your definition of "doing fine with women." Do you mean getting laid? One-night stand? Or an actual, functional relationship between two people who like and respect each other?
Both..Ive had female friends i told from the start that a certain guy was a piece of garbage but they let lust get in the way because the guy was good looking and sucessful and acted stunned that she eventually got burned..
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Old 05-05-2011, 11:03 AM
 
Location: Texas
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Men.

No matter how ugly, a lot of them will still take the chance and try to land a hot woman.
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Old 05-05-2011, 11:04 AM
 
Location: Tri-State Area
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Both genders are equally guilty.
I agree - have seen it plenty of times.
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Old 05-05-2011, 11:26 AM
 
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lol i love when people act like women have some enlightened sense of judging peoples character that Men dont and can sense any little thing wheter it be lack of confidence negative thoughts etc if that were the case youd never have posts like you do here of women being burned by guys they thought were good men but werent..

I know plenty of good looking misognyists who do fine with women..I guess womens instincts arent always great..
No, men can sense it too. Men get "run away" vibes when put into the path of a very clingy woman, a woman who has too many issues, etc. OR, either sex can gravitate toward the negatives because they want to validate their own negative viewpoint of the opposite sex. Sometimes we really just want to be pissed at someone...even if it's an entire gender. It gives a great excuse for not succeeding in various areas of our lives besides the obvious -- that maybe we're the problem.

The misogynists you know are offering the women something they deeply want. Usually, it's excitement. Not all people want positive excitement...they'll take it any way they can get it. Why do you think some women "somehow" get involved again and again and again with men who are bound to treat them horribly? It's not coincidence. They want/need the drama in order to really feel the relationship. I mean that's pretty well-known...
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