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Old 05-28-2011, 10:48 AM
 
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Directed at single guys, trying to get laid :

The key is confidence and taking the initiative.
Take a situation I was in tonight at a party.
She says to me having not said much to me previous, despite checking each other out......."***** has just been upstairs with *****"

Now why would she say that to me otherwise, thats an invitation right there.
So I said lets go and away we went. Its not rocket science.
If the guy gets the woman pregnant thru mutually agreed sexual hedonism , then should the guy take the initiative on preventing his developing child from being broken into pieces and sucked into a sink via paying someone to do the job ? Or ... is that where 'the initiative' line is drawn ?
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Old 05-28-2011, 11:15 AM
 
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For single guys who want a one night stand...

What if she had AIDs or some other virus or disease, or what if she had an STD or what if you accidentally get her pregnant?
No risk, no reward.
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Old 05-28-2011, 11:22 AM
 
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If the guy gets the woman pregnant thru mutually agreed sexual hedonism , then should the guy take the initiative on preventing his developing child from being broken into pieces and sucked into a sink via paying someone to do the job ? Or ... is that where 'the initiative' line is drawn ?
That is why he advocated using condoms.....but again I don't suspect too many American's to understand what is the role of a condom or they are ready to bash its effectiveness due to some other reason than human stupidity.
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Old 05-28-2011, 11:30 AM
 
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No risk, no reward.
No risk, no AIDS
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Old 05-28-2011, 11:36 AM
 
Location: San Francisco, CA
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Wow, you must be quite the hot stud player. Thanks for sharing your tips with us.
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Old 05-28-2011, 12:40 PM
 
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No risk, no AIDS
Safe sex or no sex
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Old 05-28-2011, 12:43 PM
 
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Safe sex or no sex
Even with "safe sex" condoms and pills can fail.
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Old 05-28-2011, 12:54 PM
 
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Even with "safe sex" condoms and pills can fail.
Yes, even they can fail.

The best thing to do it abstain until you're with the right person and until you and your partner feel completely ready. You don't want to risk an accident that can dramatically change the course of your life.

There are some people that live by me that are infected with AIDs. They live in a housing projects by the city. But sometimes when you walk by their houses, you'll see them outside and I can tell you, they look really sick. They're very skinny, pale, and you can look at them and tell they don't feel well. Yes, we do have medication and AIDs infected people do live better than in the past. But you still have to take medication all the time and those medications often time cause severe side effects. That's not really a good way to live, in my opinion. AIDs isn't something you want to mess with, as it's incurable. These AIDs infected people most likely became infected by "messing around" and look what their consequences are now.

But it's not just AIDs, there are hundreds of other kinds of STDs that can cause you to be very sick.

That one night of "messing around" can get you in serious trouble.
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Old 05-28-2011, 12:57 PM
 
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Yes, even they can fail.

The best thing to do it abstain until you're with the right person and until you and your partner feel completely ready. You don't want to risk an accident that can dramatically change the course of your life.

There are some people that live by me that are infected with AIDs. They live in a housing projects by the city. But sometimes when you walk by their houses, you'll see them outside and I can tell you, they look really sick. Yes, you do have medication and AIDs infected people live better than in the past. But you still have to take medication all the time and those medications often time cause severe side effects. That's not really a good way to live, in my opinion. AIDs isn't something you want to mess with, as it's incurable. These AIDs infected most likely became infected by "messing around" and look what their consequences are now.

But it's not just AIDs, there are hundreds of other kinds of STDs that can cause you to be very sick.
Ya I agree. I know there's
more than just AIDS. I just used that as an example.
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Old 05-28-2011, 01:17 PM
 
Location: Tampa (by way of Omaha)
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See, I'd never make that connection. I'd probably think to myself, "Ok and I care about that... why?" and say to her "Hah, naughty naughty" and then change topics of conversation.

women need to be more blunt.
Dude, how more blunt could they be? You want them to show you a neon sign saying "hey, let's go ****!" or something?

Step up your game man!

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Yes, even they can fail.
And I could also die in a car accident. That's not going to stop me from driving.
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