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Old 07-20-2011, 07:16 PM
 
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You're starting to scare me, girl! I can only hope your standards are too high!

they're not. when the only sex you ever knew for a long time was pretty freakin good, its quite disappointing to go to guys who don't even enjoy something as simple as kissing, as much as I do. hopefully it gets better though..we'll see. I've learned what I want in and out of bed and I'm better at asking for it now, lol.
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Old 07-20-2011, 07:18 PM
 
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haha, a couple guys were in their 30's...one was fine at first and then progressively got weirder and weirder. the other was in his late 30's and it was blah no matter how much I tried to make it better. I'm starting to think and accept that very few men are good in bed at this point.
Man, I want to send that last statement out of the park with something smart, but I'm really biting my tongue at this one.

It's all in the search. Unfortunately you haven't found another guy yet, and it might be your standards. I don't know for sure, but there's someone out there for you. Sometimes you have to do some diggng!
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Old 07-20-2011, 07:21 PM
 
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Man, I want to send that last statement out of the park with something smart, but I'm really biting my tongue at this one.

It's all in the search. Unfortunately you haven't found another guy yet, and it might be your standards. I don't know for sure, but there's someone out there for you. Sometimes you have to do some diggng!

haha don't bite your tongue! I want to hear it! why does eveyrone always say its my standards? am I supposed to settle for boring sex with selfish lovers?? lol but ya, been doing some digging and its been lame.
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Old 07-20-2011, 07:24 PM
 
Location: Houston, TX
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Nothing I've said is inconsistent, you just think they are because I've left out parts. These things are not inconsistent:

1) Being attractive to women
2) Being slightly misogynistic at times
3) Getting punched in the face by a crazy broad

If you're so interested, #3 happened right before I dropped an ex-girlfriend off in front of her dorm. Her friend had told her I was cheating on her (completely untrue), but instead of confronting me she just threw a punch and got out of the car. The next day she discovered the truth, but didn't apologize because she said she was "still upset" and thus her actions were justified. I'm going to say she was messed in the head.
I'm not a fan of violence...but I think her actions were justified.
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Old 07-20-2011, 07:30 PM
 
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haha don't bite your tongue! I want to hear it! why does eveyrone always say its my standards? am I supposed to settle for boring sex with selfish lovers?? lol but ya, been doing some digging and its been lame.
the way I read it, it sounded to me like you are jaded or something. No sex shouldn't feel boring, and then again I don't know if you ask him to do what makes it feel good for you.

I was just going to say something like I would right that ship of yours like a boss!

But yeah I was holding back since I'm not that full of myself.
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Old 07-20-2011, 07:35 PM
 
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Man, I want to send that last statement out of the park with something smart, but I'm really biting my tongue at this one.

It's all in the search. Unfortunately you haven't found another guy yet, and it might be your standards. I don't know for sure, but there's someone out there for you. Sometimes you have to do some diggng!
nevermind.
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Old 07-20-2011, 07:38 PM
 
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nevermind.
Did I already answer your question, or ask the question you were going to ask?
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Old 07-20-2011, 07:39 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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ha why does eveyrone always say its my standards?
I was just guessing. I can't say I've had many bad experiences in this department, but then again... my experiences are extremely different, so they don't really count as a reference point...
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Old 07-20-2011, 10:32 PM
 
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the way I read it, it sounded to me like you are jaded or something. No sex shouldn't feel boring, and then again I don't know if you ask him to do what makes it feel good for you.

I was just going to say something like I would right that ship of yours like a boss!

But yeah I was holding back since I'm not that full of myself.
you know, I always want to ask them to do what I want..but when you feel like they don't care either way, I just don't bother. I mean sex is good cause its sex, but its definitely been lacking a little bit for me.
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Old 07-20-2011, 10:33 PM
 
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I was just guessing. I can't say I've had many bad experiences in this department, but then again... my experiences are extremely different, so they don't really count as a reference point...

ya, I wouldn't say its been all bad..just a lot of these men are selfish and are only in it to get off, not to please AND get off.
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