Sex and Men over 40? (problems, issues, insecure, dysfunction)

[akck]

I'll admit that our sex life really dropped off around my early 50's. Last year, I read somewhere that a daily aspirin regimen could be connected to ED, so as an experiment, I stopped taking it. I'm happy to report that things did pick up after a couple of weeks and I'll likely be staying off aspirin for a long while.

[OngletNYC]

Men in their 40s most certainly do not get as hard as men in their 20s. They definitely are better lovers all around, but if you are just talking about straight up penetrative sex, younger ones are better.

[Raena77]

40 year old men are hot! I check out my uncles friends all the time. My Aunt is only 9 yrs older than me. She thinks it's funny.

[gwynedd1]

Originally Posted by Raena77

40 year old men are hot! I check out my uncles friends all the time. My Aunt is only 9 yrs older than me. She thinks it's funny.

Still hot but off the burner.

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by Raena77

40 year old men are hot! I check out my uncles friends all the time. My Aunt is only 9 yrs older than me. She thinks it's funny.

It IS funny! What IS funny is how you always talk about men just a few years older than you are as if they're some exotic weird species!

[WhyShouldIWorry]

Originally Posted by Anna777

very interesting!
I do not date 80 yr olds, but judging by the way they walk....i dont have much confidence on how they would be in bed.

They're saving all they have just for you! Are younger men that considerate?

[lionking]

Originally Posted by OngletNYC

Men in their 40s most certainly do not get as hard as men in their 20s. They definitely are better lovers all around, but if you are just talking about straight up penetrative sex, younger ones are better.

Don't know about that, at 44 I still get a *rage* almost daily.

[gwynedd1]

Originally Posted by lionking

Don't know about that, at 44 I still get a *rage* almost daily.

Me too and I kissed in tell.

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[the-writer-guy]

I'm 45 and have no problem in the bedroom! I am better and more relaxed (and know more than when i was 35 or 25 or so on...

[LS Jaun]

Originally Posted by the-writer-guy

I'm 45 and have no problem in the bedroom! I am better and more relaxed (and know more than when i was 35 or 25 or so on...

I think a lot of the issues come about because a person is out of shape and overweight. Then there are the medical issues: Low T, Diabetes etc.

Ive been paranoid that ive had issues a couple of times in the last year, but if this week is any indication, its as good as it ever. If it does start going south sounds like there are some natural methods that sound pretty good.