I used to view the world, as far relationships between guys/girls, quite differently before I started get the urge to have sex badly. That was only about a 1 year ago when I was 25. Before I was hardly interested in girls and my idea of a relationship was based close friendship/understanding instead of anything related to sex.
Back in high school I though these guys were crazy and stupid to go after girls. For example, once I was walking with group of guys in High school and one of them pointed out he liked the butt of a girl was in front of us! I remember thinking how lewd his comments were. Even through college and my early 20s, I was amazed at why guys were wasting so much time and effort trying to get sex from girls.
I never quite understood them until now! I think I can finally understand the urge these guys must have having and why they put so much effort chasing girls. It has actually my changed my opinion about those guys back in high school/college. They no longer seem stupid or crazy, instead it seems like they were going after what they really wanted!
In recent months, I have finally picked up a lot more about interaction between guys and girls. I think now I can pick up a lot more about what flirting is. I can also appreciate comments from males pointing out a girl's hot body. Honestly, it almost make me see the entire world in different light!