Never understood why women had this requirement when looking for a mate (dating, mature)

[FBJ]

"I want him to have a good relationship with his mom"


Why is this even a issue when trying to find a mate? What if he didn't have a good mother? I never seen a man saying-"she must be real close to her mom"


Women and their odd dating requirements

[Racelady88]

Originally Posted by TVandSportsGuy

Women and their odd dating requirements

This from a man who rejects a woman based on her choice of footwear.....

FYI, having a good relationship with his mother will show that he has the capacity to respect women.

[darrensmooth]

you are being for real right now?

btw for women the equivalent is if she has a good relationship with her dad, have you ever heard of daddy issues?

[FBJ]

Originally Posted by Racelady88

This from a man who rejects a woman based on her choice of footwear.....

FYI, having a good relationship with his mother will show that he has the capacity to respect women.

what if he had a bad mother?

[darrensmooth]

Originally Posted by Racelady88

This from a man who rejects a woman based on her choice of footwear.....

FYI, having a good relationship with his mother will show that he has the capacity to respect women.

agreed, typically how you treat your mom in terms of respect is a good indicator of how you will treat a woman.

[WakaFlocka]

As funny as it sounds, it's a very valid concern. I wouldn't go out with a girl who has a poor relationship with her father or if the father is non-existent.

[Racelady88]

Originally Posted by TVandSportsGuy

what if he had a bad mother?

Are we talking "Mommie Dearest"? Define "bad mother"?

Mothers are people and make mistakes along the way, just like everyone else. Most of those mistakes don't make them bad mothers. A mature individual is capable of having a civil relationship with pretty much anyone.

[FBJ]

so as hard as it to find a companion I'm going to stop seeing someone because she is not close with her parents?

This is why match.com will always be in business

[darrensmooth]

Originally Posted by TVandSportsGuy

what if he had a bad mother?

It usually means that you didnt grow up with a positive female role model and it doesnt always bode well for those willing to be with you...this isnt always the case, but it could be indicative of issues you may have with women due to the mom's bad influence.

[FBJ]

Originally Posted by Racelady88

Are we talking "Mommie Dearest"? Define "bad mother"?

Mothers are people and make mistakes along the way, just like everyone else. Most of those mistakes don't make them bad mothers. A mature individual is capable of having a civil relationship with pretty much anyone.

Miother who was never emotionally supportive