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I will not lie; I havent read the last 5 pages. But I can gurantee Ill give you the best advice, if not one of the best posts.
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Originally Posted by SerenityO
The last hing I would be threatened by would be a mans preference for blonds. Because if he's with me, its clear he has grown tired of that. And thats a human thing.
If she actually thinks we just have the 'capability to know what else' she's going to say, much less, can't even discuss it here where she's annonymous.......I don't have high hopes of her being able to discuss it with him.
But then, you just never know. Appparently, she can read minds
I kid. Kind of. Truthfully, just ask him if he'd like to go to such and such an event with you. If he declines, it doesn't matter whether or not he's racist, does it? Next!
Keen observation and good suggestion...just in case the OP considers it.
He loves blondes, more specifically Caucasians with blonde hair. If it's not blonde hair, it's Brunettes, "Red Heads" and any other 'safe', non-extreme color.
He is no different than the majority of the other Caucasian/white males. Although we have had our rough patches, he seems generally interested in me. I see him staring at me and one time when I caught him staring he turned away, although not fast enough for me to not see his face-reddening with embarrassment.
Yet, it seems as though if there were to be a white woman with the same interests, he'd go for her as opposed to me who is not white.I understand, it's just preferences.. Yet, sometimes I see him staring at me and it seems as though he is thinking about the racial differences we both ironically share..
I can't discuss this any further, as I am becoming somewhat upset. Hopefully you have the capability to know what else I was going to write in here and give me advice..
If you must ask yourself this question, plus post this question in an online forum, there is a serious problem.
Self-depreciation? Because I said men grow tired of things and move on? I do the same thing, just as everyone in this topic.
A persons preference are generally not solid. I prefer men with blue eyes and brow hair, but If I found myself attracted to a red head I would still get to know him, and possibly get married to him and make babies.
No one has hard preferences that arent fueled by ignorance. [See my first post]
White men prefer to date within their own race, as it should be. This is why I don't like interracial dating. There will always be an awkward difference and culture clash. Both of the daters parents turn out to be racist and disapprove. The divorce rate between interracial couples is far higher than that of same race couples. For the sake of your future, just dump him and date a good man in your own race.
IT creates problems, all black men should be avaliable for me to date, not going after "trophy" white women. And white women should have white men available for them to date and marry, not going after asian women and so on and so forth.
Problem here. Some black men (like I) won't want you simply b/c you subscribe to this line of thinking.
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Originally Posted by LS Jaun
And some White men (like I) won't want you you simply b/c you subscribe to this line of thinking too.
I know you are fairly young but this way of thinking is not going to help your going into the future. As fast as things move the whole interracial dating thing is going a non-issue in the future.
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Originally Posted by jobaba
What are you?
Men in general are less discriminating when it comes it comes to dating outside of their race. I'd say most white guys like Latinas, the majority will date Asians, and less will date black women. That's just a generalization from my life experience and the white men I've known.
I was just rejected by a white woman and I am not. I spent so much time with her, I couldn't see her race at the end.
But this is not how most people think, and I can't be sure that was the reason either. Just bite the bullet and go for it.
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Originally Posted by jobaba
A racist?
There's TONS of white women who will only date white men. Ever been on Match.com?
I can't put a finger on the number, but it's the majority at least.
Most argued that women are actually MORE open to IR dating, but I suppose I should have specified WHITE women. Women of other races often think that dating a white man is 'dating up', go figure...Whereas I have found white men don't often thinking of dating outside their race as 'dating down', although marriage might be a different matter.
Lots of people will probably say race shouldn't be a problem blah blah...well they are probably 'white', because very often being of another race is a big liability and restricts you alot in the dating world.
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