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Old 11-02-2011, 08:39 PM
 
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People are just so messed up and are really insensitive.

 
Old 11-02-2011, 08:48 PM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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How did you get over it? How did you move on? How long was the relationship? What did you learn from the relationship?


I never really gotten over mine. : ( . People were saying rude about us because he white and I was asian....I havent asked him if that is the reason we broke up. It probably was. We sure as heck were great together. He brought out the best in me. Maybe he didnt feel that way about me. What do you guys think? whatever, I need to move on.



How did you meet that person?? At a party? I met mine at a party in high school.
When I was in high school I had a long term girlfriend. About one year in, she cheated on me and broke it off. It hurt like hell, but the one thing I learned at that time in my life was the value of my friendships. How important it was to have friends and other people to share your life with. Not to "become one" with your partner, save something for yourself and share with others.

Fast forward 20+ years and I've learned something else...you never stop learning.

If this guy you were with broke up with you because of your race, then he wasn't the one for you. I'm guessing there was more to it than that otherwise he may not have dated you to begin with. Did he ever give you a reason why you broke up?
 
Old 11-02-2011, 09:01 PM
 
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I met a guy when I was 16 he was 26, we had a great relationship for 3 years, he said he wanted to marry me have babies the whole thing, everything was perfect. He was then offered a amazing job in Trinidad and he took it, obviously. I didn't go, was in college etc. I heard a couple of years ago through some mutual friends that he got married to a local lady in Trinidad, man it ripped at me. I still wonder if things could have been different and wonder if he ever came back into my life what would happen. Hmmm I will ponder these thoughts about him for a little while, it makes me smile to remeber those crazy days. And has also just given me some amazing clarify regarding my other post. Ha Ha I see clearly.
I wonder about things like that all the time concerning this other guy I really liked for years. I actually still prefer him but its never going to be happen for us : (

How are you coping right now?? You guys ended the relationship bad??
 
Old 11-03-2011, 07:55 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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The one that comes to mind is when I was 17 my girlfriends sister climbed thru my bedroom window at 2 in the morning and crawled in bed with me. Decisions! Decisions! Being the gentleman that I still am, I DID HER!!!!!!!TWICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Old 11-03-2011, 04:04 PM
 
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The one that comes to mind is when I was 17 my girlfriends sister climbed thru my bedroom window at 2 in the morning and crawled in bed with me. Decisions! Decisions! Being the gentleman that I still am, I DID HER!!!!!!!TWICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!

oh brother.
 
Old 11-03-2011, 06:02 PM
 
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The one that comes to mind is when I was 17 my girlfriends sister climbed thru my bedroom window at 2 in the morning and crawled in bed with me. Decisions! Decisions! Being the gentleman that I still am, I DID HER!!!!!!!TWICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I don't know whether to laugh or whether to cry. That's a horrible thing to do Dan, hope you are joking
 
Old 11-03-2011, 06:04 PM
 
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I don't know whether to laugh or whether to cry. That's a horrible thing to do Dan, hope you are joking
i dont think he was : /
 
Old 11-03-2011, 11:00 PM
 
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Sooo I talked to him ....and we are officially never getting back together. : ( I loved him too.
 
Old 11-04-2011, 07:53 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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I don't know whether to laugh or whether to cry. That's a horrible thing to do Dan, hope you are joking
How typical. You tell me what I,a male did was so terrible. Yet you neglect to mention what the female did.
 
Old 11-04-2011, 07:54 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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oh brother.
No! Her SISTER!
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