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Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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My brother, when asked why he was handling his divorce so well compared to me and mine, simply said these words to me--which changed my life, literally--Why sould I love someone who doesn't love me?
He was a musician and huge Grand Funk fan and after he died 12 years later I was listening to the band's music in memory of him and came across this song. I think it's where he might have adopted the sentiment for himself
I don't have any family and my step kids with my ex are all grown up and gone. Why do I stay with this guy? How can I get out of this depression? Life doesnt' seem worth living to me anymore.........Thanks!
This thread should be in Mental Health forum.
" I can sum up everything I've learned about life in three words, it goes on" ~Robert Frost~
Sad, you've invested so much in someone who likely gets enjoyment from your pain. He sucking the life out of you like a vampire. Whats to love?
Get out and enjoy life, hobbies or interests to take your mind off of him and the depression.
When life isn't worth living, you're in need of help, some therapy or medication. Best Wishes.
Cassie, I think you should consider turning 51 an impetus for change. It's never too late to change your life. Tell yourself, I have lived 50 years on this path, life is very short and I shall choose a new path for my second 50 years.
I did this when I turned 40. I decided I was not going to continue to have abusive relationships and a crappy life. So I changed my path and it worked.
Too much time has been wasted. I know he is lining up his visit with her and he has been acting different the past few days. I can't take his head games anymore, they are literally bringing me down to my knees. Worse thing is I have no one to talk to about it as, unfortunately I come from a very small family and don't have relatives anymore. I don't want to bother my friends either. It's inevitable that when she gets back east, they will set up shop and then when she goes, he will be crying on my doorstep again. I need to talk to a professional. Thanks
Too much time has been wasted. I know he is lining up his visit with her and he has been acting different the past few days. I can't take his head games anymore, they are literally bringing me down to my knees. Worse thing is I have no one to talk to about it as, unfortunately I come from a very small family and don't have relatives anymore. I don't want to bother my friends either. It's inevitable that when she gets back east, they will set up shop and then when she goes, he will be crying on my doorstep again. I need to talk to a professional. Thanks
Let him cry, Closing the door on him will be quite empowering...trust me.
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