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My ideal woman? Oh I got an acronym for it. SSLUUF.
-Supportive (requires an understood level of subordination, it is what it is)
-Sexual (wants it, encourages it, doesn't leverage it with it, is good at it and allowing in it)
-Loyal (see supportive, doesn't use the law to coax someone into compliance, aka threat of divorce the second her 'day' isnt going her way)
-Unopinionated(non-combative, non-nagging)
-Unwaivering (non-flake, lacks constant mood swings)
-Frugal (financially healthy and fiscally conservative, materially un-entitled).
Do these qualities exist in women? Absolutely. Do they exist in consonance? Hell no. And the thing about it is that I don't find these qualities, in isolation, to be good enough to marry someone. I guess that puts me up the creek. I no longer barter for qualities. It's SSLUUF or the road, Jill. I WANT company, i don't NEED company. I want my SSLUUF! All that said, if there is no physical attraction, then even a SSLUUF won't do. This thing is too tall an order. Perhaps the willingness to exhibit a certain level of subordination is in itself inversely proportional to a woman's self-assessment of her sexual market value? I don't know the answer but I sure have never met a woman I was attracted to who was a SSLUUF. Perhaps the modern woman considers the SSLUUF archetype as anachronistic or even demeaning. I dont know. I know what I want though, and inability to attain it is no deterrent when the pursuit is discretionary in the first place....to each their own and all that jazz.
Well, you'd better forget it, because no woman like that is going to put up with you, judging by the posts you write here disparaging the entire gender.
I see you're still busy disparaging the entire gender. How about sticking to the topic. What type of wife would suit you best?
Why are you taking quizzes about your ideal wife when you don't like women and think they are all liars and cheats? For someone who talks about being so happy alone and not ever wanting to be in a relationship - you certainly seem to spend a lot of time and energy thinking and talking about them.
I see you're still buy projecting. How about sticking to the topic?
I see you're still buy projecting. How about sticking to the topic?
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What type of wife would suit you best?
Hmm, the type of wife that would suit me would be a super hero of sorts. She would, via a mere thought, bestow wet sock slaps to little twits who incessantly bemoan about American women on the net. I don't suspect I'll ever meet her, so here's a virtual sentiment instead. eta: oops, almost forgot....
Hmm, the type of wife that would suit me would be a super hero of sorts. She would, via a mere thought, bestow wet sock slaps to little twits who incessantly bemoan about American women on the net. I don't suspect I'll ever meet her, so here's a virtual sentiment instead. eta: oops, almost forgot....
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What is buy projecting?
I am a wife. And I guess I'm the type of wife my husband wanted - since he married with me and he's happy!
I'm glad he is happy. However I would not want a wife who cut men down like some in this forum like to do.
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