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my whole thing is, you have to be adaptable, what works at 19 ain't gonna work at 30 necessarily, if he talks/treats women (say late 20's and up) the way he does with the 19 year old girls, I'm not so sure.
I guess my whole issue with a 19 year old acting like a love guru is just depth. At 19 - you just don't have the depth that you do as you get older. So what you are saying is true - 30 year old women are different from 19 year old girls. I was in love with my high school sweetheart as much as I was capable of at 18 but it is nothing compared to the love I felt for my husband when I met him at 25 which is nothing compared to the love I feel for him now at 35. A person changes so much from their late teens/early 20's to their late 20's/early 30's - not to mention beyond that. Some of what the OP is saying is common sense - but still, I wouldn't necessarily take his advice as the end all be all of dating advice anymore than I would take the marriage advice of a newlywed. Just my 2 cents.
I think its easy for guys to act the right way to girls that are taken or they arent interested in but if theres a girl they like they deviate from the act. Its funny, girls that I wasnt interested in, I did everything right to build the attraction but girls that I did like I would clam up or not be as confident. The main thing is that we are all humans and u cant interact with anyone like they are something other.
I guess my whole issue with a 19 year old acting like a love guru is just depth. At 19 - you just don't have the depth that you do as you get older. So what you are saying is true - 30 year old women are different from 19 year old girls. I was in love with my high school sweetheart as much as I was capable of at 18 but it is nothing compared to the love I felt for my husband when I met him at 25 which is nothing compared to the love I feel for him now at 35. A person changes so much from their late teens/early 20's to their late 20's/early 30's - not to mention beyond that. Some of what the OP is saying is common sense - but still, I wouldn't necessarily take his advice as the end all be all of dating advice anymore than I would take the marriage advice of a newlywed. Just my 2 cents.
I would sooner take driving lessons from Stevie Wonder than take love advice from a 19 year old
This 19 year old is doing this- being cocky and giving us advice as if he's some o' wise one because he's young and immature. Note the way he talks about women like they're sex objects and how he backs up his arguments. He doesn't care about having a meaningful relationship, just having sex, sex and more sex. It doesn't really seem like he's thought of the possible consequences that could arise from doing these things, possibly getting a girl or two pregnant, experiencing unwanted emotional attachment(s), STDs, etc.
He's great looking. Then again, how can I argue with a guy on how attractive another guy is?
You can tell when a guy is good looking, whether you're male or female. He's above average looking, no doubt. But he's not great looking, nor will he be in GQ.
congratulations. u went from fat boy to don juan.
i was once young.
and at first was fat. lost it. however, my sense of identity was only briefly tied to "getting women".
i found that at one point the tail started waging the dog.
you are young and its early in the game.
later this will make more sense.
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