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Old 12-16-2011, 04:16 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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What are you talking about...? Is he not there or is it over?
It's over.
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Old 12-16-2011, 04:19 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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It's over.
Sorry to hear that...
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Old 12-16-2011, 04:24 PM
 
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It's over.
Sorry that guy didn't work out for you.
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Old 12-16-2011, 04:26 PM
 
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Are you sad because you don't have someone during the holidays?

I have randomly met people who have told me their whole life story and sad times. I think it has a lot to do with feeling lonely during the holidays. Maybe it's because they don't have anyone to exchange Christmas gifts or ring in the New Year or not being able (yet again) to bring anyone home for Thanksgiving. Failed marriages, failed relationships, separations, etc. I've heard it all. I'm so sad for those who are hurting but I wonder if everyone tends to feel worse during the holidays when they are alone rather than any other time of year?
Holidays have nothing to do with Relationships in my book.
I would not force myself to be in a relationship just because of holidays.
Don't let the media hype brainwash you into sadness just because of holidays, instead enjoy it.

People do have 1-2 days a week so that is a personal holiday too plus vacations and that does not mean you seek for relationships just because of that.

Xmas gifts is a religious thing and not everyone does it plus if we are talking about USA then it is a multi religion nation.
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Old 12-16-2011, 04:42 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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yea oh well. can be sad all you want, not going to change the circumstances
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Old 12-16-2011, 04:49 PM
 
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Are you sad because you don't have someone during the holidays?

I have randomly met people who have told me their whole life story and sad times. I think it has a lot to do with feeling lonely during the holidays. Maybe it's because they don't have anyone to exchange Christmas gifts or ring in the New Year or not being able (yet again) to bring anyone home for Thanksgiving. Failed marriages, failed relationships, separations, etc. I've heard it all. I'm so sad for those who are hurting but I wonder if everyone tends to feel worse during the holidays when they are alone rather than any other time of year?
You're right about the holidays. I have an apartment above a counselor's office. Everything is very private, but she said that November and December are the busiest times of the year.
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Old 12-16-2011, 05:05 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Thank you Sierra and Prince Frog. Time to sit down for some introspection on my part. Never fun.
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Old 12-16-2011, 05:17 PM
 
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Thank you Sierra and Prince Frog. Time to sit down for some introspection on my part. Never fun.
Hey, the person who chooses to stay with you will have quite the woman.

Just my 2 cents.
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Old 12-16-2011, 09:18 PM
 
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Are you sad because you don't have someone during the holidays?

I have randomly met people who have told me their whole life story and sad times. I think it has a lot to do with feeling lonely during the holidays. Maybe it's because they don't have anyone to exchange Christmas gifts or ring in the New Year or not being able (yet again) to bring anyone home for Thanksgiving. Failed marriages, failed relationships, separations, etc. I've heard it all. I'm so sad for those who are hurting but I wonder if everyone tends to feel worse during the holidays when they are alone rather than any other time of year?
I'm single. And no man, the holidays are the best time of the year. Decorations, holiday music, presents, and a brand new year.... who can complain. This is a time to celebrate with family and friends.... the loved ones that we do have. Not a time to find something to make ourselves upset over. Anyone who doesn't realize that is doing themselves a great disservice. And missing out on this beautiful time of the year!
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Old 12-16-2011, 09:21 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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Are you sad because you don't have someone during the holidays?

I have randomly met people who have told me their whole life story and sad times. I think it has a lot to do with feeling lonely during the holidays. Maybe it's because they don't have anyone to exchange Christmas gifts or ring in the New Year or not being able (yet again) to bring anyone home for Thanksgiving. Failed marriages, failed relationships, separations, etc. I've heard it all. I'm so sad for those who are hurting but I wonder if everyone tends to feel worse during the holidays when they are alone rather than any other time of year?
I'm going on a vacation so I'll cry in my beer when I get there...

......
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