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OK I know this will garner a lot of freaky responses...but I'm putting it out there anyway.
So you are in a very loving, committed relationship. You have phenomenal sex, but you both are very open minded about sex and each has expressed an interest in a FMF threesome....
The fantasy is incredible...and the reality is possible... but I'm a little afraid of the aftermath.
Insecurities can be checked... and I'm sure it would be exhilarating... but CAN you really divorce yourself from seeing your partner having sex with another woman? Deep down I know I am the one for him... but would I wonder IF he enjoyed it more with her... perhaps? Perhaps not...
I really want to do this (and I'm getting no pressure...) but I am a little worried it could open Pandora's box.
He has asked about a MFM as well...but honestly I don't want anyone other than him. So does that make me start thinking then why would he want anyone other than me? A little... we've discussed...he's cool with either and has said to him any 3rd party, M or F, would be like having another enhancer or toy in the mix... and we go home with each other, nothing more.
I would really LIKE to.... but I am afraid of what it could lead to.
Then there are practical issues...a stranger (great for anonymity, not for comfort factor...but never to be seen again) or an acquaintance (Do I ever really want to see them again?) ... and what about STDs? And what about setting parameters?
Oh, I know there are many things that do not require bringing in another person. I totally know that. And truthfully, we've probably tried many of them. lol
Sharing.... I too view this as just sex. Both of us feel this could be a cool/exciting/fun experience... but neither of us are interested in "open" relationships...this is just something we'd both be interested in maybe trying together.
I can openly discuss this with him...and vice versa... including insecurities about it... but it's sort of a fantasy of both of ours...and we feel we love and are committed enough to each other to try it out... but the fact that these worries are there...well, maybe that's my answer?
OK I know this will garner a lot of freaky responses...but I'm putting it out there anyway.
So you are in a very loving, committed relationship. You have phenomenal sex, but you both are very open minded about sex and each has expressed an interest in a FMF threesome....
The fantasy is incredible...and the reality is possible... but I'm a little afraid of the aftermath.
Insecurities can be checked... and I'm sure it would be exhilarating... but CAN you really divorce yourself from seeing your partner having sex with another woman? Deep down I know I am the one for him... but would I wonder IF he enjoyed it more with her... perhaps? Perhaps not...
I really want to do this (and I'm getting no pressure...) but I am a little worried it could open Pandora's box.
He has asked about a MFM as well...but honestly I don't want anyone other than him. So does that make me start thinking then why would he want anyone other than me? A little... we've discussed...he's cool with either and has said to him any 3rd party, M or F, would be like having another enhancer or toy in the mix... and we go home with each other, nothing more.
I would really LIKE to.... but I am afraid of what it could lead to.
Then there are practical issues...a stranger (great for anonymity, not for comfort factor...but never to be seen again) or an acquaintance (Do I ever really want to see them again?) ... and what about STDs? And what about setting parameters?
Any one with thoughts...experience?
Honestly? I am going to be very general...
And a little graphic..
okay and FMF...
ask yourself if you are okay kissing a woman, being oral, and watching your man with another woman because this is what it boils down too..
It is not so much about the women but the act itself...because if he likes it this can lead to other women...
A mfm? Is just weird...you are looking at getting railed while giving another man oral sex...or having both men at one time..yup..up the poop shoot..
If I were you? I would opt for someone watching if the third party is needed and then go from there if need be...good luck
Threesomes work best when there is no love involved. Who wants to see the love of their life screwing someone else? Just my 2 cents.
It would break my heart, and his too
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