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He may be thinking about forgiveness and anger and knows that to forgive her is to get away from her and not have to see her everyday and stew in his anger, resentment and disappointment. Most people need time to process and pray, for those who pray, and get over anger and resentment to forgive people who hurt them.
I have not forgiven people before for the pain they have inflicted on me.
Although righteous, it was ultimately a miserable feeling, and I did not realize that until after I finally forgave. As far as needing time to process, yeah, I can definitely see that, but good lord, he doesn't have a lot of time. He's 99. lol
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Would his wife really be considered as one who truly loves him?
We can not know if she feels remorse or her level of remorse so many years later. It would take for him to sit down and talk to her.
Are you serious? A man shouldn't care if his children are biologically his? Only a women would say something that ridiculous. I would be beyond pissed if some women deceived me into raising somebody else's kids that I thought were mine.
At his age...with kids AND grand-kids grown? You think it matters? Really? How? What would change, at 99 years of age? I'll tell you what - NOTHING.
Only someone that has never had kids would say something so ridiculous.
Wait a minute...Not all women...its a huge deception.
I said nothing about there being no deception. Obviously there was plenty. What I said was....it wouldn't change anything. They ARE his kids...he already raised them.
Or sometimes a man is sooo angry at a woman that he just wants to hurt her, and he knows that the best way to hurt her is to hurt her children.
His pain take precedence over everything and everyone else.
And yes, it's selfish and messed up.
Men and women do this, all the time. Yes, it's stupid, useless, and truly hurts only the children. I can't imagine that anyone, at 99 years old, would even WANT to know that the children he raised and loved for all those years, were not his. I suppose if someone is hurting bad enough, they do all sorts of stupid things. Looking into the paternity of his children, would be one, in my opinion. Hell, he'd probably have a heart attack and die if he found that any of them were not his. Oh well....at least he'd know.
At his age...with kids AND grand-kids grown? You think it matters? Really? How? What would change, at 99 years of age? I'll tell you what - NOTHING.
Only someone that has never had kids would say something so ridiculous.
Save that feminist garbage for somebody who doesn't know any better. You are delusional if you think a man wouldn't care if his children were truly his.
Men and women do this, all the time. Yes, it's stupid, useless, and truly hurts only the children. I can't imagine that anyone, at 99 years old, would even WANT to know that the children he raised and loved for all those years, were not his. I suppose if someone is hurting bad enough, they do all sorts of stupid things. Looking into the paternity of his children, would be one, in my opinion. Hell, he'd probably have a heart attack and die if he found that any of them were not his. Oh well....at least he'd know.
Save that feminist garbage for somebody who doesn't know any better. You are delusional if you think a man wouldn't care if his children were truly his.
At 99 honey, I'm telling you, it would not make one damn bit of difference. When you have kids and raise them to adults...you come back and talk to me then. No feminist here, dude. You've totally got the wrong gal for that.
At 99 honey, I'm telling you, it would not make one damn bit of difference. When you have kids and raise them to adults...you come back and talk to me then. No feminist here, dude. You've totally got the wrong gal for that.
Trying to tell a man how to think, sounds like a feminist to me.
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