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02-23-2012, 09:30 PM
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Location: San Gabriel Valley, CA
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Originally Posted by MariaKintobor
I also said in those posts that the woman needed to be hot. Men won't care how smart a woman is if he isn't attracted to her.
Dismissing me by calling my views crazy is the sign where you have NOTHING left to argue.
Like I said case closed.
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I didn't say you were crazy, hon.
I do believe you have very little sense of self, at least based on these posts if they really all do reflect your (quickly changing) points of view. What can I say? Case closed indeed.
I don't think anybody on here said a man would go for someone he wasn't attracted to at all. 
I'm not sure whom it is you're arguing with any more. Peace to you, I really do feel for you. I hope you eventually figure out who you are.
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02-23-2012, 09:33 PM
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Location: Utah
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Originally Posted by JerZ
I didn't say you were crazy, hon.
I do believe you have very little sense of self, at least based on these posts if they really all do reflect your (quickly changing) points of view. What can I say? Case closed indeed.
I don't think anybody on here said a man would go for someone he wasn't attracted to at all.
I'm not sure whom it is you're arguing with any more. Peace to you, I really do feel for you. I hope you eventually figure out who you are. |
Your right, my bad. You only mentioned that I don't know who I am, that you worry for me and that I change my views with the wind. 
It was IMPLIED. Really to think that any man would take a woman who was decent looking and smart over the less smart bombshell is a foolish fantasy and I don't see the need for women to lie to themselves when the truth is apparent.
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02-23-2012, 09:46 PM
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Location: San Gabriel Valley, CA
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Originally Posted by MariaKintobor
Really to think that any man would take a woman who was decent looking and smart over the less smart bombshell is a foolish fantasy and I don't see the need for women to lie to themselves when the truth is apparent.
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I think you should go read the responses to the thread you just started.  And I don't really think I need to say more.
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02-23-2012, 09:48 PM
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Originally Posted by MariaKintobor
Men want a lady who can handle what he needs her to in order to minimize his responsibilities, keep her mouth shut unless she needs to come to him for help to validate his leadership status every once in awhile and look damn good while doing it.
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That is a good ideal for a sub, but most women aren't subs and most men aren't doms. Men come in as many different flavors as women do.
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02-23-2012, 09:49 PM
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Location: San Gabriel Valley, CA
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Originally Posted by Celestyn
That is a good ideal for a sub, but most women aren't subs and most men aren't doms. Men come in as many different flavors as women do.
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^^ This...It's fine for a particular lifestyle but doesn't really do a good job of describing any sort of general trend.
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02-23-2012, 09:49 PM
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Originally Posted by MariaKintobor
Your right, my bad. You only mentioned that I don't know who I am, that you worry for me and that I change my views with the wind.
It was IMPLIED. Really to think that any man would take a woman who was decent looking and smart over the less smart bombshell is a foolish fantasy and I don't see the need for women to lie to themselves when the truth is apparent. |
speak for yourself, there are plenty of men who would prefer the smarter women especially relationship wise. Oftentime the bombshell is just a goodlooking shell with no substance (not always).
Why as a man would I go for the really hot woman who couldnt challenge me intellectually? i'd get bored pretty quickly.
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02-23-2012, 09:50 PM
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Location: in your dreams
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Holy tangent Batman!
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02-23-2012, 09:56 PM
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Location: Utah
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I think you should go read the responses to the thread you just started. And I don't really think I need to say more. |
I completely agree. You don't need to say more. 
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02-23-2012, 10:02 PM
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I completely agree. You don't need to say more. |
I think your reality is based on your own experience which does make sense. But people, men or women or not as one dimensional as you seem to believe. Perhaps men your age feel the same way you do, but guys who are a little older who are ready to settle down have different priorities, and the girl's main feature being 'hot' might not count as much as being able to hold a conversation, not be dumb as a brush etc
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02-23-2012, 10:07 PM
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Location: Utah
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Originally Posted by darrensmooth
I think your reality is based on your own experience which does make sense. But people, men or women or not as one dimensional as you seem to believe. Perhaps men your age feel the same way you do, but guys who are a little older who are ready to settle down have different priorities, and the girl's main feature being 'hot' might not count as much as being able to hold a conversation, not be dumb as a brush etc
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Men my age? I'm a chick.
Anyway it isn't really about what I think it boils down to human nature. Men want the women with the big boobs and the hips and women want men who can provide for them.
This is not some radical concept.
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