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So bf and I were watching Bachelor show together when there's a sexy woman showed up in the show, bf eyes went pop out and make this adimiring " wow" sound like he has never seen a beautiful woman before. He has never looked/admired me that way.
Next time remain calm, and then later say, "Earlier I felt bad when you "wowed" that girl on the Bachelor. It really hurt my feelings. Could you please not do that?"
Of course, he may just go underground with his feelings.
It's more fun if you can play along with him, like , "I know, man she is so pretty!" Then pat his leg and move on.
So bf and I were watching Bachelor show together when there's a sexy woman showed up in the show, bf eyes went pop out and make this adimiring " wow" sound like he has never seen a beautiful woman before.
I felt hurt and yelled at him. Am I wrong?
No, you are not wrong. It is perfectly normal for a guy to feel that way although he might have a girlfriend - but a man should never do something like that around the woman he is with. People in committed relationships see other people everyday that they might think are attractive, but it takes certain level of emotional maturity to keep that to themselves and not mention it to the person they are with.
I was with a woman a while back that seemed to think that David Becham was hot and mentioned it a couple of times. I was like WTF? I don't care how good of a soccer player he is or how much money he has. That idiot doesn't know how to jump out of planes at 12k feet.
I wouldn't have a problem with hubby having a crush on an actress. He doesn't seem to mind me admiring Captain Jean-Luc Picard. Its not like we are going to run into them anytime soon.
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My response to your thread: Wow. He's thinking it, makes no difference if he expresses it or not. If you can't deal with it, stop pretending that he doesn't even think about other women. All these threads about is this or that cheating are totally ridiculous. If my woman thought David Beckham was hot I'd at least be assured she was normal, lol. She ain't gonna be sleeping with Becks anytime soon, so it wouldn't make me feel inferior. Of course maybe I'd prefer she not go on about how other guys are hot, but as long as she appreciates men then I'm cool.
So bf and I were watching Bachelor show together when there's a sexy woman showed up in the show, bf eyes went pop out and make this adimiring " wow" sound like he has never seen a beautiful woman before. He has never looked/admired me that way.
I felt hurt and yelled at him. Am I wrong?
Time for someone to grow up. He didn't cut "it" off after he met you.
so bf and i were watching bachelor show together when there's a sexy woman showed up in the show, bf eyes went pop out and make this adimiring " wow" sound like he has never seen a beautiful woman before. He has never looked/admired me that way.
I felt hurt and yelled at him. Am i wrong?
lol.
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