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Since it was brought up in another thread I had to post this one in a poll. I have heard that many men say that a woman’s weight is the biggest deal breaker of all when men are looking. I don't necessarily equate looks with weight, it's more a matter of proportion and being healthy: Normal blood pressure, Cholestrol and able to get out and hike or dance without wheezing. There is a very vocal group of men that protest heavier women. I don't believe it is even half of all men but I could be wrong.
In reality most woman, even heavier woman have a man at least some time in her life. She may have a cute face or some other feature that is more important to a man.
Well I'm fine with curves, but if she looks fat, then no, I don't give a crap what her bloodwork says, and as far as personality goes, that will work to be my friend, not enter my bed.
(very)Simplified:
Hot chick with bad personality =>bed material
Fat chick with bad personality =>get out of my sight
Fat chick with Good personality=> could be a friend at most
Hot chick, good personality =>relationship material
Well I'm fine with curves, but if she looks fat, then no, I don't give a crap what her bloodwork says, and as far as personality goes, that will work to be my friend, not enter my bed.
(very)Simplified:
Hot chick with bad personality =>bed material Fat chick with bad personality =>get out of my sight
Fat chick with Good personality=> could be a friend at most
Hot chick, good personality =>relationship material
Well I'm fine with curves, but if she looks fat, then no, I don't give a crap what her bloodwork says, and as far as personality goes, that will work to be my friend, not enter my bed.
(very)Simplified:
Hot chick with bad personality =>bed material
Fat chick with bad personality =>get out of my sight
Fat chick with Good personality=> could be a friend at most
Hot chick, good personality =>relationship material
Let me add a little bit here:
Decent chick(not hot), great personality =>dream girl
Decent chick, bad personality =>not even worth getting into the bed
But there are exceptions, I had a friend of mine dating a fat chick(okay not fat but overweight), however she did work hard, change her diet and finally lost like 30 lbs and guess what, she was suddenly kinda hot, well atleast decent if not hot.
Well I'm fine with curves, but if she looks fat, then no, I don't give a crap what her bloodwork says, and as far as personality goes, that will work to be my friend, not enter my bed.
(very)Simplified:
Hot chick with bad personality =>bed material
Fat chick with bad personality =>get out of my sight
Fat chick with Good personality=> could be a friend at most
Hot chick, good personality =>relationship material
So in your world there are only hot women or fat women?
Well I'm fine with curves, but if she looks fat, then no, I don't give a crap what her bloodwork says, and as far as personality goes, that will work to be my friend, not enter my bed.
(very)Simplified:
Hot chick with bad personality =>bed material
Fat chick with bad personality =>get out of my sight
Fat chick with Good personality=> could be a friend at most
Hot chick, good personality =>relationship material
I really do agree with this. I love when I surf online dating websites where women say they are "average body type" only to discover that it looks like they are minimum 20 lbs over weight. Average should NOT be fat.
(very)Simplified:
Hot chick with bad personality =>bed material
Fat chick with bad personality =>get out of my sight
Fat chick with Good personality=> could be a friend at most
Hot chick, good personality =>relationship material
All the dating ladies, you've got some real winners out there. I envy you.
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