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I don't get out much due to working full time from my house and going to school full time... but I do get out and I see hot women all the time, and I never just approach them. Is this abnormal? I'm rather good at talking to people, and I don't have any fear of women by any means, but I think I might not approach women as much as I should.
Do most people who are successful with women just approach every good looking woman they see without even thinking twice about it?
I don't get out much due to working full time from my house and going to school full time... but I do get out and I see hot women all the time, and I never just approach them. Is this abnormal? I'm rather good at talking to people, and I don't have any fear of women by any means, but I think I might not approach women as much as I should.
Do most people who are successful with women just approach every good looking woman they see without even thinking twice about it?
No, tonight was a good example of it. I went to the lake tavern for some eats with the old man tonight. We're sitting there eating our tenderloins and three middle aged women walk in and take a seat. My Dad's elderly and is off in his own little world when it comes to stuff like this! LOL Not me...no Sir...this brunette that came in was stunning. She was a twelve out of ten, a complete knockout. It took less than thirty seconds for her to catch my eye like a magnet. She was better than hot, and I have really good taste. The other two woman she was with ( all three late 30's early 40's) weren't so good looking. I couldn't take my eyes off her. Finally, I get my old man to look. He has trouble hearing as well and I didn't want to shout so the whole damn tavern heard me. Right away, he got a smile on his face and said..."I know what you are looking at". LOL So, so what Dad! LOL I finally started looking at her hands closely. I'm looking for a ring, as I didn't see one. We finished up and were heading out the door. She looked at me two or three times because I know she knew I was staring at her. I just smiled and headed out leaving her alone. Why did I not say something? She was out with some of her friends. I didn't want to ruin her night by slobbering all over her. No biggy, I highly doubt looking like that around here that she wasn't taken. I'm not kidding, she was a 12 out of a 1 to 10 scale.
I think a really successful man will be comfortable talking with all persons, not minimizing or maximizing their contact on the basis of what doors will open for them. Decent women will notice this and open a door for these good men. The man 'wins' by being a social fellow in good standing because he is at heart, a good man. The woman 'wins' by finding a good man who has a measure of respect for all and can be called an equal partner. Could society shift to this style of reckoning relationships? It may be better than what passes for appropriate through the broad entertainment media. It may be a longer method for getting dates but better for society in the long run to have examples of what good men really are. That may be more than the OP asked for, but it goes a long way to having a woman love you for life, if this is a practice you follow faithfully.
If the women regulars had their way, men would approach women all the time, until their face got so red from being slapped that they couldn't go out in public.
Women are finding that men are no longer providing enough opportunities for ego boosts and want us to change before they need to take anti-depressants.
No, tonight was a good example of it. I went to the lake tavern for some eats with the old man tonight. We're sitting there eating our tenderloins and three middle aged women walk in and take a seat. My Dad's elderly and is off in his own little world when it comes to stuff like this! LOL Not me...no Sir...this brunette that came in was stunning. She was a twelve out of ten, a complete knockout. It took less than thirty seconds for her to catch my eye like a magnet. She was better than hot, and I have really good taste. The other two woman she was with ( all three late 30's early 40's) weren't so good looking. I couldn't take my eyes off her. Finally, I get my old man to look. He has trouble hearing as well and I didn't want to shout so the whole damn tavern heard me. Right away, he got a smile on his face and said..."I know what you are looking at". LOL So, so what Dad! LOL I finally started looking at her hands closely. I'm looking for a ring, as I didn't see one. We finished up and were heading out the door. She looked at me two or three times because I know she knew I was staring at her. I just smiled and headed out leaving her alone. Why did I not say something? She was out with some of her friends. I didn't want to ruin her night by slobbering all over her. No biggy, I highly doubt looking like that around here that she wasn't taken. I'm not kidding, she was a 12 out of a 1 to 10 scale.
I think a really successful man will be comfortable talking with all persons, not minimizing or maximizing their contact on the basis of what doors will open for them. Decent women will notice this and open a door for these good men. The man 'wins' by being a social fellow in good standing because he is at heart, a good man. The woman 'wins' by finding a good man who has a measure of respect for all and can be called an equal partner. Could society shift to this style of reckoning relationships? It may be better than what passes for appropriate through the broad entertainment media. It may be a longer method for getting dates but better for society in the long run to have examples of what good men really are. That may be more than the OP asked for, but it goes a long way to having a woman love you for life, if this is a practice you follow faithfully.
This makes a lot of sense actually. I can't say I have a fear of rejection, and I don't even feel bad when I'm rejected.. I just rarely go and talk to women. Maybe it is laziness. Maybe I should just look at it like that, nothing more than another fun thing to do, and if they want to come along then cool, if not, no big deal.
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