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Old 03-30-2012, 04:22 PM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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There is a huge difference between 6 months and 6 weeks.
If you were already posting here - why is this your first post?
I've been pregnant. The girl I was before was never long gone. Either you are seeing things that aren't there or you didn't know her well enough in the beginning.
Because he's probably using a 3rd screenname. This user name just joined this month and has 1 post but there's 2 other user names with a very, very similar story. I'm wondering if this is the guy who is 21 and she's the 18 year old.
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Old 03-30-2012, 06:19 PM
 
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Another prime example of why people who don't really know one another should NOT be having sex
No, another prime example of people who don't know each other well failing to use adequate birth control.
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Old 03-30-2012, 06:31 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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No, another prime example of people who don't know each other well failing to use adequate birth control.
No birth control is 100% effective

If people are going to have sex they better know the person well enough and actually care about them, to risk having to co-parent together for the next 20 years.
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Old 03-30-2012, 06:50 PM
 
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Because he's probably using a 3rd screenname. This user name just joined this month and has 1 post but there's 2 other user names with a very, very similar story. I'm wondering if this is the guy who is 21 and she's the 18 year old.
no it's my first post and it's 6 week's,i couldnt activate my acount and i made a mistake typing the text sorry for that
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Old 03-30-2012, 06:52 PM
 
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i dont know where to edit my thread so it's 6 weeks
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Old 04-01-2012, 03:02 AM
 
Location: On the Ohio River in Western, KY
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I would get an attorney. If Dad wants to talk to you....talk to an attorney first. Hope this girl was over 18. Talk to this attorney about what your rights are, and also request a paternity test....You will be able to get visitation if this is your baby. You will need to pay child support. Watch for court papers....see an attorney right away to find out what to expect and your options.

See? Now why do people always assume that the mother will get custody?!

It's bogus IMO, a good majority of men are better fathers than the mothers are moms.
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Old 04-01-2012, 03:56 AM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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Because he's probably using a 3rd screenname. This user name just joined this month and has 1 post but there's 2 other user names with a very, very similar story. I'm wondering if this is the guy who is 21 and she's the 18 year old.

"then about 6 (months/weeks)??"

"She hasn’t returned my stuff (the surprises/gifts he got her)"

Why bother posting similar stories under 3 different screen names???......Perhaps they didn't get the answer they were looking for under the first 2 names.

Clues are always left. Its like they're begging you to call them out on the story.

Its par for the course.
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Old 04-01-2012, 05:29 AM
 
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"then about 6 (months/weeks)??"

"She hasn’t returned my stuff (the surprises/gifts he got her)"

Why bother posting similar stories under 3 different screen names???......Perhaps they didn't get the answer they were looking for under the first 2 names.

Clues are always left. Its like they're begging you to call them out on the story.

Its par for the course.
as i said i never post similiar story on other screen name what's the ponit doing that?the answer is going to be the same,and im not asking for the answer just a simple advice what to do,and in what way to act to prove her that im changing and how to gain a chance to get us back together,i know that she has feelings for me,she is just to **** off over my action,AND SHE IS 6 WEEKS PREGNANT now she is going into the 7 week,
i post copy my all post from other site that's why is saying that i alredy posted here SORRY for that
and she didnt returned my stuff not gifts,i mean clothes,laptop and other stuff what i have there
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Old 04-01-2012, 05:52 AM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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as i said i never post similiar story on other screen name what's the ponit doing that?the answer is going to be the same,and im not asking for the answer just a simple advice what to do,and in what way to act to prove her that im changing and how to gain a chance to get us back together,i know that she has feelings for me,she is just to **** off over my action,AND SHE IS 6 WEEKS PREGNANT now she is going into the 7 week,
i post copy my all post from other site that's why is saying that i alredy posted here SORRY for that
and she didnt returned my stuff not gifts,i mean clothes,laptop and other stuff what i have there
Dude I didn't just fall off the turnip truck and I've been around the forum long enough to figure out what the scoop is.

So, we'll have agree to disagree on the validity of your dilemma.

Good Luck though.
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Old 04-02-2012, 09:31 AM
 
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demo13....I can totally understand why her dad wants to "talk" to you.....I can't really help you though,...as I don't know to what excesses your jealousy reared it's ugly head.....what happened?..what did you do that turned her away from you?
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