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Me and my guys have been dating for over a year. He's separate from his wife after 12 year married, I'm separate after 10 years. We met 5 months after his separation and one year after mine
We have been doing a lot of things together, he says he loves me. But he seems like not interested in sex.
In the beginning we had some but he told me that was tough for him due his separation, they have no kids and he told me that they used to argue a lot, that he had no interest in sex with her either, as he wasn't happy and he hates living here, etc.
I really like him but the whole relationship is a mess. Some days he's happy and some others he's miserable. He ask me to move somewhere else but I have my business here and he has his job. They both work for the same company and see each other everyday.
I don't know what to do. I'm a good looking woman and I feel so frustrated. He's been acting so weird. No photos on me/us on Facebook, he gets angry very often and loses his temper easily with me?
Time for an upgrade, perhaps? This does not sound like a healthy relationship, because he does not sound like a healthy person, and it sounds like he's not "into" you in any sense of the word.
Time for an upgrade, perhaps? This does not sound like a healthy relationship, because he does not sound like a healthy person, and it sounds like he's not "into" you in any sense of the word.
You're so right. Maybe he's with me just to make her jealous and that hurts my feelings a lot.
The only thing he tells me everyday is how pretty or attractive. I don't need to hear that, beauty is in the inside. If so attractive he finds me, why no sex?
you mentioned he's separated and not divorced, perhaps, he still feels like he is still married in a sense??? 1.5years isn't really a long time to get over a 12year marriage, he may still harbor some feelings for the wife?
I don't know what to do. I'm a good looking woman and I feel so frustrated. He's been acting so weird. No photos on me/us on Facebook, he gets angry very often and loses his temper easily with me?
Between the facebook issue and now this, cut your losses quick. He's had over a year to move on. You do not need to be the rebound when he clearly does not treat you the way you seem like you should be treated.
This board will give you lots of responses and no real answers because the only two people who really can get to the bottom of this is you and him. My best guess is that he is still not over his marriage. Mind you, I said marriage, not wife, because I think it is entirely possible for someone to be over their spouse, but to still be getting comfortable with the idea of not being married. Everyone works their way through seperation and divorce in different ways and it seems like you guys are examples of this. Bottom line is you can either be patient or you can move on. Kinda an either/or thing here.
It does sound like the relationship is a mess. When the sex life goes, everything goes. Do you want to fix the relationship or move on? I am the last person to move on or to advise others to do so but you should consider it because it does really sound not so good. Maybe take a step back from what ever commitment you do have to see things a little more clear?
It is possible he could have a low libido due to medical or physiological reasons. He needs to see his doctor to find that out.
At least if you find that out it would eliminate or solve that possibilty.
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