I've always been able to bounce back rather easily.
I had 2
really messed up relationships back to back about 6yrs ago. One broke my heart, and the 2nd broke my spirit.
But afterwards, with what must have been the grace of God, lol, I started drawing some really nice guys to me from then on, which really helped restore my strength & sanity.
A few relationships will always affect me, from time to time, which I still think about on occasion. But I don't let them hold me back, because I know our experiences are what help shape the direction of our future.
I also believe our character is constantly tested w/ wack partners and random people we meet. Will we fall victim to them or stand firm in our convictions? When we know what we want, we refuse to accept that which we do not.
My boundaries were tested big time this year, which was a really huge lesson for me, and I definitely feel I've been rewarded for my bravery!