Do females always think about old flames? (guy, older, family)
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Nope, women cheat just as much as men do. Women however, are just a heck of a lot better at lying about it and/or hiding it.
Stupid guys, don't have enough sense to take their little baggy of regular soap, deodorant, etc. along.
What does this have to do with the original question? You asked if we "thought about old flames". So are you saying that if a woman "thinks" about an ex - it's cheating??? Huh??
Carol Connelly:
Why can't I have a normal boyfriend? Just a regular boyfriend, one that doesn't go nuts on me!
Beverly Connelly: Everybody wants that, dear. It doesn't exist.
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More and more of these arguements I've had with women, the more I believe that the majority of them are 100% crazy and they go out of there way to look for drama.
Just happened to me with the most recent girl I talked to also. Thing is, she did it several times, and I kept reassuring that there was no one else, and there wasn't, but she had that seed of doubt in her I guess that wouldn't go away. So, from this point on, any girl who tries to argue about that, gets dropped on the spot, no matter how much I like her. Drama isn't OK in my life.
I rarely think of old flames, my life is too full and busy for that. Every now and then a song or movie or place may bring back a fond (or not so fond) memory.
Twice happened to me, when I was younger they were attractive and wanted nothing to do with me. Heck, they made sure I knew that (Seriosuly, in those days I rarely had a civil rejection, it's either a flat out lie, stood up, or a public display of affection to their man of the week in my face.) Anyway, one added me on FB, I accepted just to entertain my curiosity on what she looks like now.
Now? Both are fat as land whales, both with kids. Had to drop of the radar to avoid contact from them, one was at my work for a while until she was terminated for bad attitude and starting drama among co-workers. The other is "married" to some burly looking Texan, her first marriage flopped due to her being a control freak and literally tried to plan this guys life for him and he just never said no.
Sometimes I do but it doesn't happen often. I don't dwell on it for too long because I try not to waste valuable time out of my life thinking about my exes.
More and more of these arguements I've had with women, the more I believe that the majority of them are 100% crazy and they go out of there way to look for drama.
Just happened to me with the most recent girl I talked to also. Thing is, she did it several times, and I kept reassuring that there was no one else, and there wasn't, but she had that seed of doubt in her I guess that wouldn't go away. So, from this point on, any girl who tries to argue about that, gets dropped on the spot, no matter how much I like her. Drama isn't OK in my life.
My good man, LIFE ISDRAMATIC!
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You would do good to check out some books from your local library about how the mind of a woman works, etc.
To not research and understand it, is like trying to hunt without ammo (hopeless and futile).
You will forever be alone! "Woman" is synonymous with drama!
I think of old flames more than I should - especially when I am on a bad date and I would give anything to be with a former boyfriend instead. Sadly, I didn't realize what I had until it was gone.
I think about my ex's occasionally. We ended for a reason though.
And I'm enjoying being single too much and looking forward to what the future holds. I'd rather not dwell on my "has-beens"
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