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Old 07-10-2012, 11:14 PM
 
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Maybe she was with that other guy before you and even if she had a great time with you, she could falling back with her first guy. Probably he called her the next day and she choose him over you.Im just guessing here. Dont know the whole story about her. I dont think you did something wrong.
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Old 07-11-2012, 02:15 PM
 
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My goodness, I dont owe anyone anything exclusively unless we have both agreed to this! I never date only one guy at a time. Who has time for that?..at all. It takes time to become exclusive with someone. Until I recognize that you are the only one I would like to spend my time with out of the others, consider me dating other folks

Having sex with several people is one thing, but going out dating and having fun ppssssht! As a matter of fact, the better the prize the more men that are after I guarantee. Why wouldnt she take the time to select the best that suits her? Relax.
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Old 07-11-2012, 02:31 PM
 
Location: On the corner of Grey Street
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I have had two dates two dates in a row with two different guys. I've definitely made the mistake of being exclusive too fast, and I take my time now. It has to be someone really great for me to get rid of my options!
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Old 07-11-2012, 02:32 PM
 
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So I took this girl out on a date. First date in a year since my last long term girlfriend dumped me.
We went out to a diner after I picked her up (we both love diners) and made jokes and talked then went on a walk through Fairmount Park where she began to tell me all about her family and problems she's having with her parent's complicated relationship. Then we go to see Moonrise Kingdom at the Bala Theatre (Antiquated and cool) and loved the movie. Then we walked around Bala Cynywd for awhile before driving around Philly and sneaking into a cemetery. Finally I drove her home after stopping at her favorite diner near her house for some coffee. I picked her up at like 6pm and we stayed out until 4am. I chickened out kissing her but I don't think that was the problem.

The next day she starts dating someone else.

Don't know how to feel.
Consider yourself lucky. You don't date women that talk about their family problems and reliationships on the first date. They are usually crazy emotional baggage that you dont want.
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Old 07-11-2012, 02:35 PM
 
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Consider yourself lucky. You don't date women that talk about their family problems and reliationships on the first date. They are usually crazy emotional baggage that you dont want.
I did think that it was awkward that she discussed this. None the less, I still stick by what I said.
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Old 07-11-2012, 02:49 PM
 
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You should not let the fact she went on a date with someone else stop you from asking her out again if you enjoy spending time with her...why not show her you are the better choice?

Curious...how did you find out about her other date?
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Old 07-11-2012, 02:52 PM
 
Location: Australia
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[quote=zentropa;25123828]You should not let the fact she went on a date with someone else stop you from asking her out again if you enjoy spending time with her...why not show her you are the better choice?

Curious...how did you find out about her other date?[/quote]

Stalking
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Old 07-11-2012, 02:52 PM
 
Location: Baltimore, MD
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One date doesn't equal commitment.

Maybe she had that date already set up.
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Old 07-11-2012, 04:37 PM
 
Location: Detroit
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You should not let the fact she went on a date with someone else stop you from asking her out again if you enjoy spending time with her...why not show her you are the better choice?

Curious...how did you find out about her other date?
Read my mind.
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