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Old 07-18-2012, 03:18 PM
 
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Facebook is srs business.
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Old 07-18-2012, 03:18 PM
 
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She said she would Friend me anyway, but I'm getting all nervous about my mistake. I probably shouldn't stress over it, but she's an amazing girl and I don't want to mess things up with her, especially over something so small.
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Old 07-18-2012, 03:35 PM
 
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She said she would Friend me anyway, but I'm getting all nervous about my mistake. I probably shouldn't stress over it, but she's an amazing girl and I don't want to mess things up with her, especially over something so small.
Don't worry, this is not that big of a deal. Just remember that if she likes you, she'll like you despite this. If she doesn't like you, then she'll make a stink about this.
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Old 07-18-2012, 03:47 PM
 
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Congrats on a good first date. WHo cares if you sent her a friend request. Dont feel the need to explain yourself to someone you barely know. You'll come accross as weak and insecure, not exactly masculine traits. just forget about it and go on about your business. Its her choice to accept or not.
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Old 07-18-2012, 04:02 PM
 
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You can just cancel the request.
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Old 07-18-2012, 04:06 PM
 
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You can just cancel the request.
She has a smartphone and I assume she got an email as soon as I sent it.
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Old 07-18-2012, 04:08 PM
 
Location: PNW
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Giving this time, energy, and focus is making it a bigger issue than to begin with and creating stress and worry in your life. Let it go.....don't give it another thought.
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Old 07-18-2012, 05:22 PM
 
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I wouldnt explain it at all..i think if you did it would be creepy in itself. if she questions play it off and fess up like yea im interested to know more about you.
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Old 07-18-2012, 05:26 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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I don't think anyone puts much thought into facebook. If you went out with her and it went well she will probably be happy you added her. No one is a creep unless they're ugly or REALLY weird.
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Old 07-18-2012, 06:08 PM
 
Location: Planet Earth, USA
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I think some people take facebook very seriously.

If someone put their profile private and said THEY will add YOU because their profile will be impossible to find, they want people to respect their privacy.

If I told some girl that I will add her because my profile is private and she won't be able to find me and then I got a friend request from her, I would be like WTF? How did you find my profile?

Then she told me that she was bored, looked up my job's profile page and saw my comment on there and that's how she found me, I would be a bit peeved.

Even if I really liked her or not, I would think that behavior is very odd and raise red flags.

Maybe she won't be upset but I wouldn't admit to searching her job's page.
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