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Old 07-22-2012, 12:50 AM
 
Location: Australia
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One day you'll laugh.

I wonder if he's the "room mate she shared a phone with"?

Dude, seriously...I live way down the other side of the world and I knew she was just trying to be friendly....why didn't you?!?!
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Old 07-22-2012, 05:29 AM
 
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you should just use the boyfriend test. If she has any piece of jewelry on or anything noticeable at all, just ask "hey thats a nice _necklace__, did your boyfriend buy that for you?" It's a harmless way find out if they are seeing someone. Or if they say they are busy, ask them "a date with the boyfriend?".
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Old 07-22-2012, 05:34 AM
 
Location: Astoria, NY
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Or if they say they are busy, ask them "a date with the boyfriend?".
It's not harmless, that's an annoying, quite unsubtle, and frequent ruse men use to get in your business. If I was interested in sharing with you that I had a boyfriend I would. I don't appreciate trying to have the answer forced out of me under the guise of a "harmless" question.
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Old 07-22-2012, 08:37 AM
 
Location: DFW
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And if that was her brother, the way she kissed him on the mouth, I'd say she has bigger problems than pesky co-workers hitting in her at work.
Momma said ... never marry outside the family
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Old 07-22-2012, 01:18 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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She said they've been on and off, due to his cheating. So maybe when she asked you out (the time before the party), they were "off". Who knows. Anyway, any woman who's into bad boys is a messed up person you probably wouldn't want in your life. "Friendship"--meh. I'd be burned out on her by now, if I were you.
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Old 07-22-2012, 01:23 PM
 
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It's not harmless, that's an annoying, quite unsubtle, and frequent ruse men use to get in your business. If I was interested in sharing with you that I had a boyfriend I would. I don't appreciate trying to have the answer forced out of me under the guise of a "harmless" question.
Agree. OP- In a month she didn't say ANYTHING about her boyfriend or that she had one is wrong on her part. However, YOU should have made sure she didn't have one right away!! Be forward and ASK.
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Old 07-22-2012, 04:18 PM
 
Location: Australia
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No I'm sorry, OP just must've misread all kinds of signals.

I'm not trying to rub your nose in it OP but DAMN....!

Plus, one minute you were having a great time at her party, the next you took off with your tail between your legs making it totally obvious to all you'd just been dissed, as well as leaving god knows how many disappointed single girls behind at the party??????

Lift your game son. Lift your game.
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Old 07-22-2012, 07:47 PM
 
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Messed up. I know women like that, they try to play every angle, I had one friend, yes, she had a hot body, but if you actually got beyond the hotness factor, you found a drama *****, who loved to play men, and drive men crazy. I could not believe the stuff she did, she lived with a man, but, continued to meet men online, to make "new friends",she was just looking for something better. She drove her boyfriend, a cop, crazy, he handcuffed her and hit her. No doubt becuase she drove him crazy with jealousy--no excuse--but, she then reported him, and he was put on suspension at work, all because of this hot crazy chick...she dressed to drive men crazy, high heel shoes, long earrings, lots of rings--all paid for by men...low cut shirts, with Victoria Secret bra showing once in awhile. Long dark hair...

Whip, you dodged a bullet man! Go find a nice plain girl at church, who wears white cotton panties.
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Old 07-22-2012, 09:09 PM
 
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Bad boyz bad boyz..... watcha gonna do......
You punch'em in the ovaries. Because deep down, they're just little girls.
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Old 07-22-2012, 09:11 PM
 
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So... Your gonna let it go ?? Right ? Enough already spare yourself
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