Is the orgasm that important after all? (boyfriend, physically, screaming)

[nyanna]

Originally Posted by Cow

You sound defensive, do you need an orgasm?

How do you plan on giving me one?

I had to learn.

Someone, somewhere probably told her it was "dirty" and that "nice girls" didn't do that to themselves. Like Sally Draper in Mad Men.

I never, ever masturbated as a child, had no idea you even could, thats how thoroughly brain washed I must've been.

I remember clearly sitting down with a Cosmopolitan at around 15 and thinking "ok...I'm going to try this" ...and just like that, a legend was born.

Only thing I knew about sex growing up was to use birth control. No one talks about orgasms and foreplay in sex ed.

[MsAnnThrope]

Originally Posted by nyanna

How do you plan on giving me one?


Only thing I knew about sex growing up was to use birth control. No one talks about orgasms and foreplay in sex ed.

Gurlllll....that's why God invented Cosmo!

Aren't you just the slightest bit curious???

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by nyanna

How do you plan on giving me one?


Only thing I knew about sex growing up was to use birth control. No one talks about orgasms and foreplay in sex ed.

There are some great books on this subject out there. Perhaps you should spend some time at the local bookstore.

In particular, pick up the famous old standby, "Everything You Always Wanted to Know About Sex But Where Afraid to Ask" by Dr. David Reuben.

You could really learn a lot.

http://www.amazon.com/Everything-Alw.../dp/0312976569

[Prince_Frog]

Originally Posted by MsAnnThrope

did you not see what happened to sally draper????

I'd have to google it, so no. lol.

[nyanna]

Originally Posted by MsAnnThrope

Gurlllll....that's why God invented Cosmo!

Aren't you just the slightest bit curious???

Yea I am since everyone makes a huge deal about it. But I know I wont have a vaginal O because my nerves aren't that sensitive in my vagina.

[missclinks]

Forget the vaginal O. Not important.

[MsAnnThrope]

Originally Posted by nyanna

Yea I am since everyone makes a huge deal about it. But I know I wont have a vaginal O because my nerves aren't that sensitive in my vagina.

You need an educated man for a vaginal orgasm.

It's got ZERO to do with how sensitive your nerves are. We've all got a G spot and an educated man can find it and stimulate it until you ejaculate.

And you will go on and on and on....never stop. As Froggie can attest to. It's never ending if done right.

And TOTALLY awesome.

[Miss J 74]

Originally Posted by Djuna

Every time you have sex without having an orgasm a kitten dies

LMAO Thank God we have not killed any kittens yet. My cat would never forgive me for that.

[Miss J 74]

Originally Posted by MsAnnThrope

You need an educated man for a vaginal orgasm.

It's got ZERO to do with how sensitive your nerves are. We've all got a G spot and an educated man can find it and stimulate it until you ejaculate.

And you will go on and on and on....never stop. As Froggie can attest to. It's never ending if done right.

And TOTALLY awesome.

This, a thousand times this.

[srjth]

Originally Posted by missclinks

Forget the vaginal O. Not important.