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Actually, yes. Interesting, educated, well-rounded, in shape, eats right, strong values, solid character... sure, no problem.
But we all know those things do not count, especially in this age. No way.
Rabbit, it's a numbers game. Its trial & error that is affected by availability, access & location. No doubt it can be a struggle for some, but you must remain confident in who you are. Don't let your lack of success dictate that.
Actually, yes. Interesting, educated, well-rounded, in shape, eats right, strong values, solid character... sure, no problem.
But we all know those things do not count, especially in this age. No way.
That's not what I see when I read your posts... As a female, I'm pretty objective and open to many types of men. Most of what I see from you is bitter.
Would you date bitter?
Even if your life is in the crapper, have a sense of humor about it. You could be way worse off than you are.
No matter what it is, no matter who I am interested in, no matter what plans I wish to carry out, no matter what my desires are, if it's something I want then there is no way it can happen. Women call all the shots when it comes to relationships. Every. Single. Time. No exceptions. I could be the most decent, kindest, gentlest, interesting, 'buff' - not that I care about that one very much, but I digress - educated, whatever guy there is and it doesn't make a damn bit of difference. None.
Then grow a pair and maybe your relationships will change.
You think that if I really wanted a relationship bad enough it can just happen? Are you serious? That is insane... that goal involves ANOTHER PERSON, yes, another person who does not want me! And all women, it seems, are 'other persons'. THEY are the people who are stopping me so your clicheed response has zero validity in my experience.
but this is exactly why youre not having any luck reaching this goal. you are blaming your misfortrunes and lack of success with the opposite sex, on women. It is easier this weay because you dont have to take any responsibility for real reason this is happening. Time to stand in front of a mirror for a little while, and give yourself a gut check, if you want the real reason for failing with women. ITS YOU!!!!!. unless youre willing to admit it, take a realistic look at whats happening - nothing will come of it and nothing will improve. You are good enough to get most available women, you just dont know it nor do you act like it. In fact, judging by your threads, such as this one, you do everything in your might to repel women. Sorry for the harsh words, but i think youre a cool dude and you deserve honesty.
but this is exactly why youre not having any luck reaching this goal. you are blaming your misfortrunes and lack of success with the opposite sex, on women. It is easier this weay because you dont have to take any responsibility for real reason this is happening. Time to stand in front of a mirror for a little while, and give yourself a gut check, if you want the real reason for failing with women. ITS YOU!!!!!. unless youre willing to admit it, take a realistic look at whats happening - nothing will come of it and nothing will improve. You are good enough to get most available women, you just dont know it nor do you act like it. In fact, judging by your threads, such as this one, you do everything in your might to repel women. Sorry for the harsh words, but i think youre a cool dude and you deserve honesty.
Take responsibility for what? My looks? Sorry, can't change that. Height? Oh, nope, that too... can't change that one either. Now, with that said, do I have an issue with my height? No way. I am very comfortable with it, rather it's women who are not. Why is that? Well, we know why... plenty of posts from women here 'uh, Napoleon Complex', 'not able to satisfy sexually', 'size matters', etc.
I do not believe that, sorry. I have been TOLD that I am not 'good enough' - and for reasons that have nothing to do with who I am but rather what I am.
Women are repelled because they choose to be repelled... I cannot and will not assume any responsibility for their actions. It is THEIR choice.
Women call all the shots when it comes to relationships. Every. Single. Time. No exceptions.
Fail.
This is not an absolute.
This problem is, when you have a goal that involves another person, that person has to be on board too otherwise it's not going to work. Nothing you can do about it, but it is not just women that call the shots.
This problem is, when you have a goal that involves another person, that person has to be on board too otherwise it's not going to work. Nothing you can do about it, but it is not just women that call the shots.
Yes they do. In my experience. And they are NEVER 'on board' with me. EVER. Not in the past 11 years at least. I've hit a concrete wall and there is no getting through it.
Yes they do. In my experience. And they are NEVER 'on board' with me. EVER. Not in the past 11 years at least. I've hit a concrete wall and there is no getting through it.
Of course in your personal experience, unless you've tried to date men??
But to say across the board it's always the women that call the shots is false. There are plenty of women that feel the same way when it comes to men.
So having 'issues' is akin to having a tantrum? Brilliant response indeed. Nice going.
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