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Old 07-28-2012, 12:09 PM
 
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I've only seen cat fights when a woman thinks another woman is 'moving in on her man' i.e. she's in an established relationship.

You may not notice the man stuff because you are a man. I think a lot of it is subconscious and men don't realize they're doing it.

We also have the bro code. Women have no such thing.

 
Old 07-28-2012, 12:10 PM
 
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We also have the bro code. Women have no such thing.
The bro-code is a myth. I've seen tons of men try to move in on their friend's girls. Complete myth. Men are capable of being rachette too, not just women
 
Old 07-28-2012, 12:11 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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We also have the bro code. Women have no such thing.
And the bro code goes out the window if there's a possibility for sex.

Me and my ladies have a 'lady code' that we abide by, but you're right...many women don't.
 
Old 07-28-2012, 12:13 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Types of women like....

The types of women that go home with men and sleep with them on a first date. The types of women who go home with men from bars and sleep with them. Then cry about it on Sunday morning.

edit: I read that wrong. But hopefully to know what I meant. They only have care and concern for above types of women.
 
Old 07-28-2012, 12:14 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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You told me I should date dudes on death row!

And if I could stop laughing hysterically, I would be horrified right now lmao

No thanks. Enough wackos in the real world, don't need one that's behind bars for god only knows what!

haha. oh yea I did say that. I was only trying to get you the best options available. and you're right there's plenty of 'winners' IRL, that's for sure.
 
Old 07-28-2012, 12:16 PM
 
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haha. oh yea I did say that. I was only trying to get you the best options available. and you're right there's plenty of 'winners' IRL, that's for sure.
Lmao omg hahaha
 
Old 07-28-2012, 12:20 PM
 
Location: Orange county, CA
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There is only one truth, and if you find it off-putting than thats your choice. I am a good man. I dont lie to any woman i meet and i havent in years. Ive never cheated on a woman in my life, despite ample opportunities. I am a decent looking guy, intelligent, fun, drug/disease and child free. I have degrees and a great career. I tell them what i want and they tell me what they want, and everyone is happy at the end of the day. There are plenty of great men out there, but all men want to get laid. Not only that, all women want to get laid as well - but social conditioning and brainwashing has done qute a bit of damage to their ability to express it. And yes, women who dont put out right away are in fierce competition and its only getting tougher, because the amnount of beautiful women who do, is astounding and growing every day. Thats the reality.
And this is why I don't date. I have plenty of friends who do one night stands of both genders. About half have an STD, quite a few have STD's that are not curable, and many have had kids they did not want. I know someone who told me that she had 5 friends in med school get pregnant despite being on birth control (one even had an IUD) AND using condoms and had to drop out of med school because of it. I've also lost track of my male friends who ended up oopsed and now get to pay child support to their one night stand for the next 18 years. There are consequences to being the village bicycle. I refuse to be the village bicycle. There has to be a happy medium somewhere between being a skank and waiting until married to have sex.

I honestly agree with whoever said that they miss the days when dating was fun. Now it seems to be nothing but mind games and having sex way too soon.

I also agree, just because someone waits to put out does not mean that they are LTR or marriage material. Have a friend who is a guy who found out the hard way. His wife was a witch. Would never say anything nice to him, would not let him have fun, was convinced that when he went to hang out with his male friends he was cheating on her. Even better, she got really fat (like 250+ pounds) in a year, lost her self esteem, refused to have sex with him, became a nag and got worse. When he finally saw the light and got a divorce, I was happy for him - and I am not one to support divorce.

To be very honest, the experiences of my friends and acquaintances in the dating world has made me question whether I want anything to do with it. People just seem to play mind games these days, and have lots of sex. And then when married, they show their true nasty character. And that is when I'm not being told that so-and-so now has herpes or so-and-so had a one night stand and (congrats!) his one night stand found him and is pregnant and wants to keep the baby and now he has been ordered to pay up for the next 18 years.
 
Old 07-28-2012, 12:49 PM
 
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The solution to that is to learn how to tell the good ones from the bad ones. Either that, or give up all together, which appears to be the path you are leaning towards.
 
Old 07-28-2012, 12:53 PM
 
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I would *notices I'm one of the very few raising her hand*

Seriously, I have no idea how many girls that famous person slept with. Take Tiger Woods for example...
I'd have to agree. For me, there is nothing appealing about a man-*****.
 
Old 07-28-2012, 12:58 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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I would *notices I'm one of the very few raising her hand*

Seriously, I have no idea how many girls that famous person slept with. Take Tiger Woods for example...

oh put your hand down. Didn't you hear we ALL sleep with men with money and status, everything else goes out the window?

Problem is they think because they are unable to control themselves, we can't either. Not really.

Last edited by Doll Eyes; 07-28-2012 at 01:19 PM..
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