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Babe, this is all kinds of hot mess. Take a sabbatical from the partying and focus on your daughter, who needs you. On your other thread you recognize that your parents' relationship did a number on you.
Sweetie you are young. I think it's normal to experiment with things. I just hope that when you do your experimenting your child is not in the house, your daughter doesn't need to grow up watching a revolving door.
The best thing to do is be honest with her tell her that you are not interested in ANY type of relationship.
Again... I responded to your post about "bad boys" with advice, primarily because you have a child at home, a young girl, and you are a single mother. Be careful OP about the decisions you are making right now, they will eventually impact you and your child. OAN I don't see anything wrong with being in a relationship with a woman if that is what you want. But this having sex with multiple people without commitment could pose an issue for you in the end. I am bisexual. Like you I prefer men over women, but find women attractive, like lesbian porn, I've experimented with other women, the whole nine yards. I stopped when I got in serious relationship, and though the "so" said he was okay with me sleeping with women, when I got pregnant I put that behind me. Not because I find anything wrong with a same sex relationship, but because I wanted to be a family(in the true of sense of the word) with my so and my child. Truthfully the thought of myself engaging in something like that just feels wrong for me now that I have a baby.
However to each their own. If you want to be with a woman make up your mind and figure that out. Just remember you do have a little girl and you want to make the choices that will effect her life positively.
Last edited by sunkisses87; 08-10-2012 at 12:46 AM..
Babe, this is all kinds of hot mess. Take a sabbatical from the partying and focus on your daughter, who needs you. On your other thread you recognize that your parents' relationship did a number on you.
I guess this is why you're on the Parenting board wanting granny to watch the baby.
You don't even have a legal set-up to get child support from the babydaddy.
Now you're in "relationships" you don't even want to be in, wanting bad boys, getting drunk and "getting it on" with some friend, all with a young child in the house??
Please please please grow up so you can bring your daughter up right, not surrounded by a bunch of random people who may or may not want to have sex with you.
OK Im officially done with city data. This is too much for me. I come and ask for advice and have my parenting bashed? Tf? OK bye.
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